"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wiesman44

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Hmmm, so I need everyone's opinion on this one. I broke up with my ex in early October. Actually she dumped me. She was all messed up in the head, yada yada yada, needless to say it was only a 2 month relationship, so didnt care. But I never got sex out of the deal. Saturday at a party, she was flirting with me. She might want me again.

I DO NOT have feelings for her. I just want to fu#k her b/c i never got to before. I do have another girl I'm dating but she's about to move 2 hrs away so I won't get ass as often as I'd like. I really dont have feelings for her either, she's just hot. My ex lives close and is convenient. If I could make her think I want a relationship again, and fu#k the crap out of her it would be awesome. More like revenge sex or something, lol. I'm going to continue djing and look for girls, but I want to try this.

Do you guys think I'm out of my mind for attempting something like this ? What are your thoughts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It sounds like you already know what you should be doing... if it's just sex you want, then whats holding you back?
 
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Wiesman44

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Dunno, I kinda feel bad about the **** thats been going on in her life, and how its affecting her. I still care for her, but my natural desires of fu#king her overwhelm it. I'm just wondering if this is way to cruel to do to someone who's been a waterfall of emotions in the past few months. Should she be another *score* on my list, or do u guys think some women should just be spared b/c you feel sorry for them / feel you'll hurt them really bad.

Just need some opinions.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
Dunno, I kinda feel bad about the **** thats been going on in her life, and how its affecting her. I still care for her, but my natural desires of fu#king her overwhelm it. I'm just wondering if this is way to cruel to do to someone who's been a waterfall of emotions in the past few months. Should she be another *score* on my list, or do u guys think some women should just be spared b/c you feel sorry for them / feel you'll hurt them really bad.

Just need some opinions.
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It depends. If she was just a bit of a nut and emotionally unstable, then leave her alone. She didn't mean to burn you, just that she's messed in the head....it would be cruel to add to the baggage she's already carrying. If this is the case, next time try to look for a more mentally stable girl, instead of just a good looking girl.

However, if you have good reason to believe she was fine mentally and just wanted to mess with YOUR head, then go for it. Some girls are just plainly manipulative, deceitful, etc. If they play those kinds of games with you, go ahead and return the favor.
 
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Question: Is this just a one time thing you want to do, or something you want to have be an ongoing situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KnightRyder

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just a quick question,

are you in college or do you work ?
 
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college....meaning there's plenty of others around, but thats not the point. I have this urge to want to bone her b/c she was such a damn good kisser, I have a feeling she'd be awesome in bed.
 
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so she has alot $hit goin on in her life... maybe she just wants to take the aggresion out thru sex... anyway, if she's an emotional unstable person, maybe it isn't a good idea... but if not, iceberg baby, no emotions... just bang that, no doubt.
 
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Originally posted by Wiesman44
Hmmm, so I need everyone's opinion on this one. I broke up with my ex in early October. Actually she dumped me. She was all messed up in the head, yada yada yada, needless to say it was only a 2 month relationship, so didnt care. But I never got sex out of the deal. Saturday at a party, she was flirting with me. She might want me again.

I DO NOT have feelings for her. I just want to fu#k her b/c i never got to before. I do have another girl I'm dating but she's about to move 2 hrs away so I won't get ass as often as I'd like. I really dont have feelings for her either, she's just hot. My ex lives close and is convenient. If I could make her think I want a relationship again, and fu#k the crap out of her it would be awesome. More like revenge sex or something, lol. I'm going to continue djing and look for girls, but I want to try this.

Do you guys think I'm out of my mind for attempting something like this ? What are your thoughts.
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I can't believe you were in a 2 month relationship and didn't Fvck her. I know someone going to say well it takes time but 2 months damn.....Just what did you do that whole time? Blue Ball Central or what?
 
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