You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I was once with a woman (that I think was childless) who was super loose in the missionary or doggie position, but very good in the spooning position. I now go for that if it's loose, and it rarely fails me.Only a small minute amount of women with children have I fvcked that have had fairly tight pvssies.
Same here. I was with a girl tonight who is 26 with a 7 y/o. I was hoping that since she had the kid at 19, she wouldn't be loose. Maybe her being about 95 pounds influenced the making of that judgment. But I was wrong; I couldn't cvm; even without a condom.
So the GI in "Full Metal Jacket" being considered too "beaucoup" for "boom boom" is an accurate trope?Someone mentioned Thai Women being tight,that is soo right,but Mainland Chinese are quite remarkable...Only logical really,as their Men have Pork Daggers rather than swords,about the size of a marker pen...True!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I hadn't specifically noticed but now that you mention it, I do know one woman who is a total size queen that I nicknamed ThunderCvnt, does have to pee quite often, while the Mrs. can go like all day. Interesting tie in there - I'll park that one up in my brain for possible future reference.Yes most women get looser after giving birth. The thing is, most women are also lazy. There are proven exercises that can be done to restore muscular strength in a woman's vag. Most women simply don't do them. Hell even these days they have little toys that act to assist in restoring that strength. Loose vag and thus weak muscles can also be problematic from the stance of bladder incontinence. Anyone ever notice that these women who have loose vag also seem to have to go to the bathroom a lot? Or if they laugh really hard they piss their panties just a bit? When they get older like in their 70s, that will turn into a real medical issue.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.