having girls aproach you by suprise.

[phatboi408]

Well today during lunch I was hanging with my friends in a circle and this girl that I know came up to me.
I have been using my DJ skills on her and she has been liking me..so anyways. She came up to me and kinda kicked me in a playful way and said hi. I was not expecting her to come up to me and I spaced out and so I just said hi and did not say anything else and looked her in the eyes. She stood there for a second expecting something but I wasnt expecting her to come out of nowhere but then she just walked away to her group. We both are in different grade levels Im a sophmore shes is a senior and we have different friends.
So the next time she does this I want to be prepared. Like say something funny. Anny suggestions would help and soon I would be able to think on a dime with some practice.

 

[phatboi408]

Any help would be apriciated because Im going to try and use the kiss test and then kiss her when we get time to be alone.

 

[Docs]

well...i'd imagine that kinda didn't go really well if there was that awkward slience... What I noticed is you just said hi instead of keeping the convo alive (what's up?, how you doin?, what are you doing tonight?)

So next time, do something to keep the contact there...

p.s. It's natural skill, not really anything I learned here to keep/start a convo like above. Something like the above..can do wonders. ^^

 

[phatboi408]

Thanks yeah probably if I wasnt so spaced out I would of started a convo but next time ill say something other than hi.

 

[tigre]

"So the next time she does this I want to be prepared. "

-it´s not like shes gonna come up to you while your in the exact situation and kick you exactly the same as she did before. Do what Docs said and just try to keep the conversation alive, asking her about her day, comment on the food or whatever and other stuff like that...