"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flyinshark

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Hey guys,

I see many of you stating that a real DJ doesn't have female friends. He either fvcks them or leaves them, and never accepts being their friend. Others say it's okay to have female friends.

What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having female friends ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warboss Alex

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What, is it a freakin taboo to have female friends? No wonder you guys are trying to get laid. Jeesh.

Besides, female friends can introduce you to their female friends.
 
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Having female friends is good.

Having infactuations for females who aren't attracted to you,... NOT good.

There is no middle ground. The "friend zone" does not exist.
 
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It's very good to have female friends, the very immediate benefit is that they can introduce you to their female friends. And if she's a "normal" girl (understand not an attention wh*re who only has male "friends"/suckers that she strings along), most likely at least half of her friends will be females. Among them, there's bound to be HBs. So it's all good.

I'd simply like to point out the obvious: you should have female friends who are genuine friends who just happen to be female.:up: Instead of female "friends" who are hot girls that you are attracted to/infatuated with, but who don't want to have anything physical with you, so you settle to be their "friend"...:down: :crackup:
 
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Sicarius said:
I f.ck my female friends and we're friends and everybody's happy
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:up: and there is where you find the ideal relationship.

I find females to make lousy friends. If I find a female attractive I would want to hook up with her. If I don't find a female attractive then I rather hang out with my guy friends who think like me, my own hobbies or sarge/date attractive women as oppose to pendaring to a girl, amusing her, watching my language and come home with nothing to show for. I rather keep the female friends either as fvckbuddies or acquaintances whom I may see once in a blue moon. I am not saying don't go for having female friends but on the scale of things to do and enjoy they barley crack the top 10.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flyinshark said:
Hey guys,

I see many of you stating that a real DJ doesn't have female friends. He either fvcks them or leaves them, and never accepts being their friend. Others say it's okay to have female friends.

What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having female friends ?
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great thread...
 
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