"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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flyinshark

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Hey guys,

I see many of you stating that a real DJ doesn't have female friends. He either fvcks them or leaves them, and never accepts being their friend. Others say it's okay to have female friends.

What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having female friends ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex

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What, is it a freakin taboo to have female friends? No wonder you guys are trying to get laid. Jeesh.

Besides, female friends can introduce you to their female friends.
 
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Having female friends is good.

Having infactuations for females who aren't attracted to you,... NOT good.

There is no middle ground. The "friend zone" does not exist.
 
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Le Parisien

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It's very good to have female friends, the very immediate benefit is that they can introduce you to their female friends. And if she's a "normal" girl (understand not an attention wh*re who only has male "friends"/suckers that she strings along), most likely at least half of her friends will be females. Among them, there's bound to be HBs. So it's all good.

I'd simply like to point out the obvious: you should have female friends who are genuine friends who just happen to be female.:up: Instead of female "friends" who are hot girls that you are attracted to/infatuated with, but who don't want to have anything physical with you, so you settle to be their "friend"...:down: :crackup:
 
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Sicarius said:
I f.ck my female friends and we're friends and everybody's happy
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:up: and there is where you find the ideal relationship.

I find females to make lousy friends. If I find a female attractive I would want to hook up with her. If I don't find a female attractive then I rather hang out with my guy friends who think like me, my own hobbies or sarge/date attractive women as oppose to pendaring to a girl, amusing her, watching my language and come home with nothing to show for. I rather keep the female friends either as fvckbuddies or acquaintances whom I may see once in a blue moon. I am not saying don't go for having female friends but on the scale of things to do and enjoy they barley crack the top 10.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flyinshark said:
Hey guys,

I see many of you stating that a real DJ doesn't have female friends. He either fvcks them or leaves them, and never accepts being their friend. Others say it's okay to have female friends.

What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having female friends ?
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great thread...
 
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