“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Having a videogame console = bad form?

Maxwell

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I currently live in a dorm at University, and I have a game console hooked up to my TV.

If I think a might be able to get a girl back to my room, should I hide it in advance?

Is it likely to be interpreted as a sign of nerdishness or immaturity, which might turn her off?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JCballin88

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No way man. Almost all guys own video game systems, starting from when they were little. If it's one of the things that you enjoy doing, why should you care what a girl thinks?

Now, if you have like...a Halo lair complete with cardboard cutouts and headsets galore with your online name printed all over the room, then you could scale back. But seriously, don't worry about it. Heck, she might even want to play something with you (but let her suggest it).
 

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Back in the day it might've been an iffy thing, but these days it's not an issue at all. Loads of people have them. Shouldn't be an issue.
 

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Maxwell said:
I currently live in a dorm at University, and I have a game console hooked up to my TV.

If I think a might be able to get a girl back to my room, should I hide it in advance?

Is it likely to be interpreted as a sign of nerdishness or immaturity, which might turn her off?
PS3 is cool as hell .. cool women will like it but you cant be lame. having a game machine does not matter of she likes you..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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There is not wrong with it at all. Just be sure to have a couple of games that girls will like to play with you. Mario Kart, Wii sports, Rockband etc.

Now if I could only figure out how to transition from Mario Kart into sex...
 

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Core issue: Feeling comfortable in your own skin. Everyone has this issue, and they feel like they need to prove themselves to other people - we feel as if parts of our lives, like playing games or whatever, is a drawback. Ever meet a cool guy who embraced himself fully? Who didn't hesitate when someone asked him what games he likes, or other hobby or lifestyle-related questions? THAT is the guy you wanna be.
 

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A well rounded man likes a lot of different things and is ashamed of none of them.
 

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In a college guy's place, it would almost be more unusual for him not to have a video game system, I'd imagine.

My only advice is try to have multiplayer games there. I love playing Mario Kart on the Wii or Rock Band, and have had some great nights with groups of friends playing them.
 

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Alright CatB. Since you are a female coming to a mans forum, you must introduce yourself and tell us about you. We need to know what we're dealing with.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maxtro said:
There is not wrong with it at all. Just be sure to have a couple of games that girls will like to play with you. Mario Kart, Wii sports, Rockband etc.

Now if I could only figure out how to transition from Mario Kart into sex...
To go from Mario Kart into sex, just get a banana and share it with her. Have her throw the banana peel on you and then spin out onto her! Do it smooth or you'll rank out! It helps to use a Starman!

Never use a lightning bolt or your drive and your speed will shrink drastically.
 

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If she says anything about it, just shrug and say it's your roommate's game system.

But seriously, if that's all it takes to turn her off then she's a nut case to begin with.:crazy:
 
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