BrockLee74
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I work with this woman. She is very attractive. for the bulk of this year she has been shooting signals at me, but I ignore them as we work together. Initially I didn't want to introduce drama into the workplace. However, over recent times she has been reduced down to working there one day a week. So I am open to bending the rules here as she is hardly ever around.
She comes off as hot and cold. One day she would touch me and engage me, the next she would be cold and distant. I just rolled along with it. I didn't care about the outcome, and it almost came in predictable cycles.
A month ago things changed a little. She asked for my number. I gave it to her and did not ask for hers. Instead I told her acceptable times to call me. A week passes, no call. I took the day off she worked next, so another week passes, no call. Then a fellow employee tells me this woman lost my number, here is her number and call ASAP. I call a couple days later and she is very apologetic. I told her it happens, no worries. She says "Now that we have each others numbers, we should hang out". I laugh at that as we live 100 miles apart. I only go that way to work. Later when we are talking about my business, she says "I will have to come up and have you show me your shop." I tell her any time.
We worked together the other day, the first time in 3 weeks. At first she came off as cold again. I even saw her hug and kiss a guy on the cheek right in front of me. I just played it cool. At the very end of the night she warmed up, complimented a shirt I was wearing, touched me a little, and said she would call me.
I received a text today and she says she will be in my area. Interesting as she has told me she had only been in my area twice in her whole life. Anyway, she wanted to know if I would be interested in having dinner with her.
I suspect she may be an attention *****. But would she bother putting this much effort into it? I have to believe there are other options closer to home. Is she a player? I get the vibe she embellishes elements of her life to make them appear more interesting and lucrative than they actually are.
She comes off as hot and cold. One day she would touch me and engage me, the next she would be cold and distant. I just rolled along with it. I didn't care about the outcome, and it almost came in predictable cycles.
A month ago things changed a little. She asked for my number. I gave it to her and did not ask for hers. Instead I told her acceptable times to call me. A week passes, no call. I took the day off she worked next, so another week passes, no call. Then a fellow employee tells me this woman lost my number, here is her number and call ASAP. I call a couple days later and she is very apologetic. I told her it happens, no worries. She says "Now that we have each others numbers, we should hang out". I laugh at that as we live 100 miles apart. I only go that way to work. Later when we are talking about my business, she says "I will have to come up and have you show me your shop." I tell her any time.
We worked together the other day, the first time in 3 weeks. At first she came off as cold again. I even saw her hug and kiss a guy on the cheek right in front of me. I just played it cool. At the very end of the night she warmed up, complimented a shirt I was wearing, touched me a little, and said she would call me.
I received a text today and she says she will be in my area. Interesting as she has told me she had only been in my area twice in her whole life. Anyway, she wanted to know if I would be interested in having dinner with her.
I suspect she may be an attention *****. But would she bother putting this much effort into it? I have to believe there are other options closer to home. Is she a player? I get the vibe she embellishes elements of her life to make them appear more interesting and lucrative than they actually are.
