"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you want a baby? get married. too many kids in the world living in fvcked up families already.
 
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yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
 
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So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory said:
So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
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You know what he means. You're just being a douche now.
 
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Limmy said:
yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
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Ehh... some online nonsense no one will remember next year is influencing your opinion about having a kid? Seriously?
 
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Dude..its your personal decision...you should ask this question to yourself...discuss it with your GF..only you and your GFknow the real answer to this question.

Some Pointers :
1) Pregnancy expenses
2) Restrictions during 9 months
3) Restrictions after 9 months..lol
4) Child expenses
5) Time you need to give to your child.

Its a great feeling to have a baby.

if you decide to have a baby then

Eat heathy..do workout..and yes daily sex.. :)





Limmy said:
Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
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Hey, If you want to be a Father, then go for it.

What you should do, is print off the Book of Pook, have it bound in leather with one of those ribbon bookmarks like a bible, and give it to him when he is old enough.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you meant to pose your original question in a "paleo" formatted-perspective, GTFO.
 
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