"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Having a baby

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Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you want a baby? get married. too many kids in the world living in fvcked up families already.
 
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yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
 
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So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alle_Gory said:
So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
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You know what he means. You're just being a douche now.
 
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Limmy said:
yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
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Ehh... some online nonsense no one will remember next year is influencing your opinion about having a kid? Seriously?
 
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Dude..its your personal decision...you should ask this question to yourself...discuss it with your GF..only you and your GFknow the real answer to this question.

Some Pointers :
1) Pregnancy expenses
2) Restrictions during 9 months
3) Restrictions after 9 months..lol
4) Child expenses
5) Time you need to give to your child.

Its a great feeling to have a baby.

if you decide to have a baby then

Eat heathy..do workout..and yes daily sex.. :)





Limmy said:
Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
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Hey, If you want to be a Father, then go for it.

What you should do, is print off the Book of Pook, have it bound in leather with one of those ribbon bookmarks like a bible, and give it to him when he is old enough.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you meant to pose your original question in a "paleo" formatted-perspective, GTFO.
 
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