"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Having a baby

Limmy

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Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Robert28

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you want a baby? get married. too many kids in the world living in fvcked up families already.
 

Limmy

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yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
 

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So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Derp

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Alle_Gory said:
So a male can have a baby too? Are you each making half a baby and then joining the pieces?

I'm not sure how this "we're having a baby" thing works...
You know what he means. You're just being a douche now.
 

ThreeStorms

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Limmy said:
yeah ok get married sounds better. What scares me too is the fact there's kids online communities now and I'm affraid it spoils the face to face necessary relation between a dad and his kid :down:
Ehh... some online nonsense no one will remember next year is influencing your opinion about having a kid? Seriously?
 

manish

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Dude..its your personal decision...you should ask this question to yourself...discuss it with your GF..only you and your GFknow the real answer to this question.

Some Pointers :
1) Pregnancy expenses
2) Restrictions during 9 months
3) Restrictions after 9 months..lol
4) Child expenses
5) Time you need to give to your child.

Its a great feeling to have a baby.

if you decide to have a baby then

Eat heathy..do workout..and yes daily sex.. :)





Limmy said:
Hi. My girlfriend I are thinking of having a baby but I can't stop thinking 'come one, look at that mess over there, how can you put a baby in a world like that it's selfish man'

so I guess I'm trying to ask you guyz do you think it's ok to have a baby in 2012 ? My girlfriend and I both have a job so the baby should have a security (a roof over his head and food on the table)

thnaks
 

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Hey, If you want to be a Father, then go for it.

What you should do, is print off the Book of Pook, have it bound in leather with one of those ribbon bookmarks like a bible, and give it to him when he is old enough.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you meant to pose your original question in a "paleo" formatted-perspective, GTFO.
 
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