"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haven't seen this body language before

Broham

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So tonight I was macking this girl who worked at Abercrombie (no I don't shop there hehe), 18, spanish, easily an 8. Thong showin a lil bit ;)

So while I was askin the qualifying ?s, she kept grabbing the front of her belt as if to reveal her precious secrets to me, lol. She did a few of a the regular signs, hair pull etc... but this i've never seen before!

So anyways, when I suggested the date, she responded, "maybe, i dont know if my bf would like that".....i camly shot back with, "well he doesnt let you hang out with other ppl? I know my gf wouldnt care." so she punched in the digits and that was that. I honestly think she does have a bf cuz her body language was really inviting. But I'm gonna call her and hopefully do the damn thang anyway.

Anyone else experience the "belt tug"?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Broham
So tonight I was macking this girl who worked at Abercrombie (no I don't shop there hehe)
What's wrong with shopping there??? I worked for the company for ~3 years - nothing but good times... and the girls that come in to shop are usually pretty hot and you've automatically got an opener...

As for her belt, I think she was just looking for a place to put her hands. Either that or she has a yeast infection and was trying to relieve the pressure on her rotting flesh down 'yonder by pulling the material away from her skin.

Have fun if you go down on her.
 

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Re: Re: Haven't seen this body language before

Originally posted by diablo
What's wrong with shopping there??? I worked for the company for ~3 years - nothing but good times... and the girls that come in to shop are usually pretty hot and you've automatically got an opener...

As for her belt, I think she was just looking for a place to put her hands. Either that or she has a yeast infection and was trying to relieve the pressure on her rotting flesh down 'yonder by pulling the material away from her skin.

Have fun if you go down on her.
LMAO sick
 

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Thank you for that insightful rationale diablo. I'll be sure to spray her down with lysol before chewing the meat curtains.

Seriously, A&F's clothes are for the preppy, skinny hs/college kid look. Personally I think theyre overpriced for the quality. I usually wear classy, ribbed form-fitting shirts since I'm pretty muscular with designer jeans, more of a mature, classy look. I just go there cuz like you said, its a hottie hangout. So I make up a story and mack. But that's just me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eh... Hollister is the A&F company targeted at 14-17. A&F is geared for 18-24, and the new concept store, "Ruehl" is for 24-30. As for them being overpriced, I'd agree with you 100%. You're welcome about my free advice, I'd wait a few weeks for her to heal up before continuing the hunt. :p
 

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Broham, interesting body language. Let us know what happen.

Don't disappointment me because I'm following your thread.
 

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Ok Ladeeeeeez nuts, I mean man, lol. I told her we'd go out on Sun since I'm goin skiing Thurs-Sat. So I'll let you guys know what happens when/if the date goes down.
 
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