“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Haven't called in 2 weeks. Too late now?

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I hung out with a girl a couple weeks ago, who I feel is attracted to me although she was very ambiguous. Anyway, I lost her number so I haven't called since.

I found it today in my pants' pocket all washed up but still readable, but there is a solid chance I'll see her this next Wednesday.

Now my question is: should I call today, wait till I see her, or have these two weeks of no contact ruined my chances with her?

P.S. I get so exited when I see a response to one of my threads for some reason. I get little butterflies in my stomach. I know it's gay, but your DJ input is so damn valuable. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why did you No Contact her for 2 weeks in the first place?

Maybe if you reveal this, is where you can get a more detailed specific responsive advice, but judging from no response from her in two weeks. I'll say it's pretty safe to shoot a text atleast, DON'T CALL. If she replies to you're text, flirt abit to get her high points, then either DROP her in dead air entirely and THEN CALL as you can re-start again off that high point you ended on with phone-conversation instead. Just text her something like, "Have You been Behaving (Insert knickname or Witty teasing) Since I've been Gone" or "Stop Thinking About Me!" in a playfull manner. If she doesn't text back, leave it and move on.
 
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HeyPachuco! said:
Just text her...
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Can't, she game her house number.

I prefer talking to her face to face, so I'll wait till Wednesday. Any advice on what I should do in terms of explaining to her why I haven't called in a way that'll minimize any negative consequences or even make me more attractive to her?

I know I'm overlooking this but I really like this chick. :)
 
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Army Strong said:
Can't, she game her house number
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Wow, a chick who doesn't have a mobile in this modern day? :whistle: Theres so much material here that you could be busting her balls on, dude. LOL

Any advice on what I should do in terms of explaining to her why I haven't called in a way that'll minimize any negative consequences or even make me more attractive to her?
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Being busy. Being busy is always an attractive perk. Letting her know that you're active, suggests alot to her. This shows that you have things going on in you're life, dude. It sub-communicates to her "woman code" that you're a leader or have sense of leadership. Scarcity is ALWAYS attractive and I am a advocate of it. If you're making her the 2nd-to-something in you're daily-life, make sure you're time with her is MEMORABLE and fun. Lie if you have to.

P.S. Don't be a pr1ck and tell her you forgot all about her or you lost her number in some James Bond voice, that doesn't breed anything. It's try-hard.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You're thinking to much about the little things. It dosen't matter, if she decided she likes you "that way" it's hard to skrew up. Follow your gut in this situation. :yes:
 
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HeyPachuco! said:
Being busy. Being busy is always an attractive perk. Letting her know that you're active, suggests alot to her. This shows that you have things going on in you're life, dude. It sub-communicates to her "woman code" that you're a leader or have sense of leadership. Scarcity is ALWAYS attractive and I am a advocate of it. If you're making her the 2nd-to-something in you're daily-life, make sure you're time with her is MEMORABLE and fun. Lie if you have to.
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Wise man you are. That is exactly what I'll do.

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Wow, a chick who doesn't have a mobile in this modern day? :whistle: Theres so much material here that you could be busting her balls on, dude. LOL
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I know, but I don't have one either. :D

That's one of the reasons why I like her and why I think she likes me; we are like mirror images of each other with a lot of things especially when it comes to dreams, ambitions, etc. We're both in the Army to kick-start our career in law enforcement.
 
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Go ahead and text her. Let her think about why you disappeared for so long. Its also good that you found out the extent to which she is willing to push back when you pull, and well she hasn't done jack squat which really shows you how far back she should be in your ho lineup. This is the type of girl to text and be strict with ("Hey, come over to my house on Friday and lets watch a movie",basically an invitation like that cause she will either come to over and give it up or do what she's been doing and that is not contacting you.
 
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After two weeks? Good luck dude.

Be honest about what happened...although I don't understand why YOU didn't have a cell either.
 
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She told me she wants to marry a soldier and that she loves a man in uniform knowing, that that's exactly what I want to be.

Does this mean anything significant?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahaha... I have a girls number that I haven't called in 3 WEEKS!!!! and I still plan on calling her. I plan on making up some excuse like I was out of town for a while. lol. we'll see how it works!
 
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Army Strong said:
She told me she wants to marry a soldier and that she loves a man in uniform knowing, that that's exactly what I want to be.

Does this mean anything significant?
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Yeah, it means that she wants to marry a guy in uniform. However in another year or so she will be chasing after some loser drug thug on a Harley because he is "exciting".
Women are somewhat unpredictable, son.
 
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i have females numbers i havent called in months (mostly females i went to college with)
 
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