"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Havent been here in a while im out of game now. help on this

Plain & Simple

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feels nice to be back although i feel kinda AFCish now but anyway heres the scenario.

This is the situation there is this fine female that works at champs at a mall by my house, everytime i go in there she always gives me the eye, but i overlook it i mean at the end of the day it is her job.

She never gave me any obvious go ahead signs other than looks, today when i went in to buy a few shirts for work she seemed kinda friendly when she was checking me out talking bout "oh u buuing the same color"

but back to the subject, i was thinking in going in one of this days but see i gotta buy something ill buy like a shoe cleaner or something since she saw me looking at the shoecleaners undecided.

Next time ill go in grab a shoecleaner and something that i really want like a white tee and try to have a small convo like ask her if the cleaner really works or not, while shes cashing me out.

how should i ask for the number though?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eccentric

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Buying something as an opener to talk to a girl? Man.... THATS WRONG.

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I swear.... only on these boards will you find people making something free, like getting a phone number, cost money.
 

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Well at least you came back to the right place!

You dont even really have to buy something, go in there and ask about a bunch of different products and say that your shopping around. It will give you opportunity to strike up some sort of converstation, if you think she's interested ask for the number when you feel like it, doesn't really matter "how" you ask, just don't make it obvious that your in there to get her number.

But man, don't just keep focus on only one girl, especially since you dont know her, she could be a total bore, you never know. So I say you try that little scheme in a few other stores :D
 

Plain & Simple

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Oh no no no make no mistake about it , right now she is the main one that im intersted in but i have 3 fuk buddies and 2 othre females which im talking to right now still working on them 2, so if i do get her ill lay back for a little while.

lol i dont know but its like am an woman/nookie addict, all nookies feel the same yet i still want new ones. oh well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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