"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Havent been here in a while im out of game now. help on this

Plain & Simple

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feels nice to be back although i feel kinda AFCish now but anyway heres the scenario.

This is the situation there is this fine female that works at champs at a mall by my house, everytime i go in there she always gives me the eye, but i overlook it i mean at the end of the day it is her job.

She never gave me any obvious go ahead signs other than looks, today when i went in to buy a few shirts for work she seemed kinda friendly when she was checking me out talking bout "oh u buuing the same color"

but back to the subject, i was thinking in going in one of this days but see i gotta buy something ill buy like a shoe cleaner or something since she saw me looking at the shoecleaners undecided.

Next time ill go in grab a shoecleaner and something that i really want like a white tee and try to have a small convo like ask her if the cleaner really works or not, while shes cashing me out.

how should i ask for the number though?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Eccentric

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Buying something as an opener to talk to a girl? Man.... THATS WRONG.

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Ace of Flames

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I swear.... only on these boards will you find people making something free, like getting a phone number, cost money.
 

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Well at least you came back to the right place!

You dont even really have to buy something, go in there and ask about a bunch of different products and say that your shopping around. It will give you opportunity to strike up some sort of converstation, if you think she's interested ask for the number when you feel like it, doesn't really matter "how" you ask, just don't make it obvious that your in there to get her number.

But man, don't just keep focus on only one girl, especially since you dont know her, she could be a total bore, you never know. So I say you try that little scheme in a few other stores :D
 

Plain & Simple

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Oh no no no make no mistake about it , right now she is the main one that im intersted in but i have 3 fuk buddies and 2 othre females which im talking to right now still working on them 2, so if i do get her ill lay back for a little while.

lol i dont know but its like am an woman/nookie addict, all nookies feel the same yet i still want new ones. oh well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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