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And I’ll restate what I said before, you gave the most idiotic BS advice I’ve ever been given on this forum or anywhere else. Telling me to go bang hookers in South America is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. And the fact that you’re doubling down shows how much common sense you lack. That $3K quote is from Las Vegas and I was just there last week, I would’ve done that last week if I was going to. But I’m not and never will.

You don’t know wtf you’re talking about, but that’s no surprise because of the BS hookers advice you keep repeating. It will not take years as I’m close to starting a career, which will pay me more money and allow me to move out and also improving my physique with a better diet and then a gym routine. If that advice and sharing red pill content is all you’re capable of, then we know who’s cooked here….
I get the impression you did not shop around in Vegas. But anyway. $400ish last time I visited .
It was 10+ years ago tho. Hoeflation I guess :oops:

So you agree, it will take years .
You are just close to starting a career,
Starting to improve your looks, physique, etc
You are still just close to standing on the starting block.

Never mind all the mental anxiety issues and baggage that have built up for you around approaching and talking to them in a romantic context.

Of course it will be years. Wake up.
 

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So you agree, it will take years .
You are just close to starting a career,
Starting to improve your looks, physique, etc
You are still just close to standing on the starting block.
I made it very clear that it will not take years and literally used the words “it will not take years” in my last reply. How the hell did you reach the conclusion that I agreed that it will take years when I said the exact opposite :rofl: But I don’t expect someone who thinks flying to South America to bang hookers is good and solid advice to understand. Money will stack up fast, noticeable gains at the gym can be achieved in less than a year too.
Never mind all the mental anxiety issues and baggage that have built up for you around approaching and talking to them in a romantic context.

Of course it will be years. Wake up.
Never mind all of that can be fixed in less than a year too, you really think game takes multiple years to learn? Even I know it doesn’t. It absolutely won’t be years.

Find some common sense, also hilarious how you think everything you just outlined here magically gets fixed by banging hookers. You’re the most delusional mf I’ve talked to on this forum lol
 

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I made it very clear that it will not take years and literally used the words “it will not take years” in my last reply. How the hell did you reach the conclusion that I agreed that it will take years when I said the exact opposite :rofl: But I don’t expect someone who thinks flying to South America to bang hookers is good and solid advice to understand. Money will stack up fast, noticeable gains at the gym can be achieved in less than a year too.

Never mind all of that can be fixed in less than a year too, you really think game takes multiple years to learn? Even I know it doesn’t. It absolutely won’t be years.

Find some common sense, also hilarious how you think everything you just outlined here magically gets fixed by banging hookers. You’re the most delusional mf I’ve talked to on this forum lol
I’m just lol’ing at your position.
Sure thing buddy. sure thing.
Well you have it all figured out hey,
Best of luck and Godspeed

dude, losing your V -plates asap can of course be solved by banging a hooker asap you retard.
 

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Dude you say I’m trolling and yet you came back here in what, like 18-24 hours later expecting that list to be completed when you and I both know that your list can’t be completed in that short span of time. So you’re trolling me if anything lol. I do have hobbies, I never mentioned them here because I was never asked what my hobbies are. The other 3 things I don’t have obviously, but I will admit I need better spending habits. My hobbies do cost me money, but they aren’t a massive drain on my income. Like I said, I can admit that I need to fix my spending and saving habits, the bad economic conditions and high prices are having a negative effect too, but that’s happening to most people right now and not just me of course.
Nope. I'm dead serious.

-Approaching your parents and shifting the dynamic to a more masculine tone takes 1 nock on their door.

- applying for the rehabilitation program regarding your addiction takes filling in a form.

- the gym member ship takes 10 minutes.

You don't have to set me straight. Im fine.i just showed you WHY you are who and where you are now your failures compound day by day , month by month and year over year.

All because you are comfortable with this sh1tty life. You have an excuse ready for every question YOU ask. You don't need improvement apparently. You seem just fine.

Ask the mods to close this thread RIGHT NOW. You dont want this and we shouldn't bother you with tasks that you cant perform. Lets give this energy to someone who actually WANTS to grow
 

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I’m just lol’ing at your position.
Sure thing buddy. sure thing.
Well you have it all figured out hey,
Best of luck and Godspeed
Not as much as I’m lol’ing at your South American hookers advice. I haven’t laughed that hard at idiotic and useless advice in a long time, and the fact that you were serious and actually believed it to be good and solid advice made it even funnier. So at least you were able to make me laugh I guess and only a retard would come up with advice like that and actually think it’s a good suggestion, so look who’s talking lol.




dude, losing your V -plates asap can of course be solved by banging a hooker asap you retard
Lost my V-Plates at 21 to a girl who wasn’t a pro, guess again :rofl:
 

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Not as much as I’m lol’ing at your South American hookers advice. I haven’t laughed that hard at idiotic and useless advice in a long time, and the fact that you were serious and actually believed it to be good and solid advice made it even funnier. So at least you were able to make me laugh I guess and only a retard would come up with advice like that and actually think it’s a good suggestion, so look who’s talking lol.





Lost my V-Plates at 21 to a girl who wasn’t a pro, guess again :rofl:
didnt u say ur a virgin in first post ?

“I have still never had a girlfriend or dated at all and I feel more hopeless about it with each passing year”

I took that to mean a virgin.

Obvs that’s why I was giving you that advice .
My mistake then carry on.
 

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Approaching your parents and shifting the dynamic to a more masculine tone takes 1 nock on their door.
Our dynamic is fine now, there is no tension between us


applying for the rehabilitation program regarding your addiction takes filling in a form.
I don’t need to go that far, I’m not at the point where I can’t function without the substances I use (which is only weed and alcohol) I can absolutely go without them on my own and don’t need to check myself into rehab. I have said that I would step away from alcohol multiple times on this thread already.


the gym member ship takes 10 minutes.
I already said I’m gonna be working 7 days a week morning to night, but that it isn’t a permanent work arrangement and that I’m joining the gym as soon as my schedule changes and allows for gym time, and that I’m gonna clean up my diet while I’m working this packed schedule so that at least I’m doing something in that regard, I sound like a damn broken record at this point repeating that at this point.
All because you are comfortable with this sh1tty life. You have an excuse ready for every question YOU ask.
Wouldn’t be trying to change it if I was comfortable with it, I’d be sitting around playing video games, doom scrolling, and eating junk food all day everyday if I was, but I don’t do that and never will.

Ask the mods to close this thread RIGHT NOW
Nah you’re probably already gonna go crying to them asking for that to happen. By all means do it, like I care. Wouldn’t be surprised if you ask them to ban my account too….
 

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didnt u say ur a virgin in first post ?

“I have still never had a girlfriend or dated at all and I feel more hopeless about it with each passing year”

I took that to mean a virgin.

Obvs that’s why I was giving you that advice .
My mistake then carry on.
It’s all good man, it’s my fault for not clarifying that in my first post. Sorry for getting heated in my replies to you, I didn’t know you were suggesting that because you thought I was a virgin.
 

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Our dynamic is fine now, there is no tension between us



I don’t need to go that far, I’m not at the point where I can’t function without the substances I use (which is only weed and alcohol) I can absolutely go without them on my own and don’t need to check myself into rehab. I have said that I would step away from alcohol multiple times on this thread already.



I already said I’m gonna be working 7 days a week morning to night, but that it isn’t a permanent work arrangement and that I’m joining the gym as soon as my schedule changes and allows for gym time, and that I’m gonna clean up my diet while I’m working this packed schedule so that at least I’m doing something in that regard, I sound like a damn broken record at this point repeating that at this point.

Wouldn’t be trying to change it if I was comfortable with it, I’d be sitting around playing video games, doom scrolling, and eating junk food all day everyday if I was, but I don’t do that and never will.


Nah you’re probably already gonna go crying to them asking for that to happen. By all means do it, like I care. Wouldn’t be surprised if you ask them to ban my account too….
You just lost all sympathy I had for you.

You're a passive aggressive man ( child) and it shows why womem avoid you like the plague. I geuss
There an old sage maxim

“Never give advice.
The wise don’t need it
And fools don’t heed it”
That James is 10000% right. I'm fine btw. After work I get my duck sicked by a beautiful woman and she will be sitting on all fours to let me relieve some stress. ;)

Have a great day!
 

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I'm going to say something here that's fundamentally different but I think more useful.

Justifying yourself is as useless as expecting someone to be beholden to the advice of others. I can't tell you what to do, but I will give you insight on one's relationship with reality. Regardless if your situation is your fault, you still must take 100% responsibility for it. On the surface it sounds constraining but it's actually quite liberating; that mindset puts you in complete control, provided you know how to think rationally.

I'm not going to dictate to you on what to do, that's amateur thinking. Nobody cares about your situation (that's a good thing) however your results are 100% your responsibility and action speaks louder than words.
 

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You just lost all sympathy I had for you.
You never had any to begin with, let’s be real

You're a passive aggressive man ( child) and it shows why womem avoid you like the plague. I geuss
You’re just pissed because I did lay out my plan, thoughtfully explained myself and how I intend to address each issue I’m facing, and fired back at you in the process. I get it. I’m never even around women anyway in my day to day life, it would take me being around them in the first place for them to proceed to avoid me like the plague lol.


That James is 10000% right. I'm fine btw. After work I get my duck sicked by a beautiful woman and she will be sitting on all fours to let me relieve some stress. ;)
Good for you I guess, do you want a medal or something? Trying to flex on someone by saying you got some as an adult is so cringe, we’re not in high school anymore lol
 

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I'm going to say something here that's fundamentally different but I think more useful.

Justifying yourself is as useless as expecting someone to be beholden to the advice of others. I can't tell you what to do, but I will give you insight on one's relationship with reality. Regardless if your situation is your fault, you still must take 100% responsibility for it. On the surface it sounds constraining but it's actually quite liberating; that mindset puts you in complete control, provided you know how to think rationally.

I'm not going to dictate to you on what to do, that's amateur thinking. Nobody cares about your situation (that's a good thing) however your results are 100% your responsibility and action speaks louder than words.
Oh I 100% acknowledge it is my fault and I do take responsibility for it. I am trying to work towards turning it all around and hopefully I will be successful at the end of the day. Certain people on here are still calling me lazy and saying I’m complacent in my current situation despite me explaining multiple times what I intend to do in order to fix the things in my life that need to be fixed. It’s been annoying, but whatever I guess.
 

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Oh I 100% acknowledge it is my fault and I do take responsibility for it. I am trying to work towards turning it all around and hopefully I will be successful at the end of the day. Certain people on here are still calling me lazy and saying I’m complacent in my current situation despite me explaining multiple times what I intend to do in order to fix the things in my life that need to be fixed. It’s been annoying, but whatever I guess.
When you justify yourself to others it give them the impression that you are beneath them like a school of sharks smelling blood in the water. I had a similar problem recently so I had to shut it down and walk away from it. It comes down to knowing what kind of power you have and becoming increasingly skilled on how to use it.
 

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You never had any to begin with, let’s be real


You’re just pissed because I did lay out my plan, thoughtfully explained myself and how I intend to address each issue I’m facing, and fired back at you in the process. I get it. I’m never even around women anyway in my day to day life, it would take me being around them in the first place for them to proceed to avoid me like the plague lol.



Good for you I guess, do you want a medal or something? Trying to flex on someone by saying you got some as an adult is so cringe, we’re not in high school anymore lol
Yeah you are 100% right and know it better than I do.

I shouldn't have started this thread

Oh wait....
 

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You never had any to begin with, let’s be real


You’re just pissed because I did lay out my plan, thoughtfully explained myself and how I intend to address each issue I’m facing, and fired back at you in the process. I get it. I’m never even around women anyway in my day to day life, it would take me being around them in the first place for them to proceed to avoid me like the plague lol.



Good for you I guess, do you want a medal or something? Trying to flex on someone by saying you got some as an adult is so cringe, we’re not in high school anymore lol

Victim mentality at his finest!


I and everyone else can clearly see your problem; you aren't open to learn. But hey, you did get some attention ( again).

I do have sympathy for people like you but I also learn that guys like you are where they are BY CHOICE.

You shyte life should be a mirror and humble you, but your arrogance is stronger than your willingness to sit down and stfu.

And finally; I rather be childish by saying I get some than by being a manchild who doesn't get any....

Sayonara!
 

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Victim mentality at his finest
Says that but can’t provide proof along with claiming it in order to back it up, no surprise. Never mind the fact that I literally just acknowledged that my situation is my fault and on me to fix it. But hey, I guess it’s just easier for you to make baseless accusations



I and everyone else can clearly see your problem; you aren't open to learn.
The irony when you explain what you plan on doing to improve your life situation and the best rebuttal is that….




I do have sympathy for people like you but I also learn that guys like you are where they are BY CHOICE.
Nah man you don’t, no need to be disingenuous because it just looks worse. It would be better if you just owned up to the fact that you have no sympathy.
You shyte life should be a mirror and humble you, but your arrogance is stronger than your willingness to sit down and stfu.
That literally did happen, why do you think I have a plan laid out to fix it and just acknowledged that it is my fault and on me to fix it? Try to keep up.


And finally; I rather be childish by saying I get some than by being a manchild who doesn't get any....
At least you admit to it being childish, now go to your nearest high school tomorrow at lunch time and tell the guys about your conquest, I’m sure they’ll be impressed lol
 

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Says that but can’t provide proof along with claiming it in order to back it up, no surprise. Never mind the fact that I literally just acknowledged that my situation is my fault and on me to fix it. But hey, I guess it’s just easier for you to make baseless accusations




The irony when you explain what you plan on doing to improve your life situation and the best rebuttal is that….





Nah man you don’t, no need to be disingenuous because it just looks worse. It would be better if you just owned up to the fact that you have no sympathy.

That literally did happen, why do you think I have a plan laid out to fix it and just acknowledged that it is my fault and on me to fix it? Try to keep up.



At least you admit to it being childish, now go to your nearest high school tomorrow at lunch time and tell the guys about your conquest, I’m sure they’ll be impressed lol
I cant wait untill you disappear only to come back one and a half year later, 34 still minimum wage or no job at all, no p0ssy , no savings no social life and being a parasite who depends on papa and mama.

Ill be watching this unfold with a huge bag of popcorn.

My final message to you ? Gotta suck to be you LOL :rofl: :lol:
 

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That James is 10000% right. I'm fine btw. After work I get my duck sicked by a beautiful woman and she will be sitting on all fours to let me relieve some stress. ;)

Have a great day!
:up:
well at least you are actually getting some p00sy.
As far as I can tell so far from 6 months on the forum . There’s only 5-6 guys actually getting some :rofl:you. BPH, Velasco, CharacterNote and Venom. That’s it.

No one else seems to ever mention it . :rolleyes:
 

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I cant wait untill you disappear only to come back one and a half year later, 34 still minimum wage or no job at all, no p0ssy , no savings no social life and being a parasite who depends on papa and mama.

Ill be watching this unfold with a huge bag of popcorn.

My final message to you ? Gotta suck to be you LOL :rofl: :lol:
Yeah I’ll bet you can’t wait until I disappear because I’m living rent free in your head clearly :rofl: But you’ll be sorely disappointed when your little prediction here doesn’t come true lol, maybe I’ll come back here just to flex on you. Not to mention that I do have a social life right now and just got together with my friends last night, and have a sizable savings account. I supported myself living in motel rooms without mama or papa’s help, I’m sure not doing a good job at being a parasite if I was able to do that. So there you go again with the laundry list of baseless accusations, clearly that’s all you got, how embarrassing.

Can’t wait until your popcorn is salted with your own tears from that prediction of yours not coming true

I thought you already gave your final message since you said sayonara on your last response, but I guess you just can’t stay away and will probably keep coming back for more until you finally go crying to the mods about me :lol:
 

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I made it very clear that it will not take years and literally used the words “it will not take years” in my last reply.

Never mind all of that can be fixed in less than a year too, you really think game takes multiple years to learn? Even I know it doesn’t. It absolutely won’t be years.
Ummm , and how do you know all this exactly?
And that even you know it doesn’t take years?

(You being the 33 yo still struggling with dating, and has still never had a girlfriend in all that time. W/ massive approach anxiety and issues with weed booze and p0rn.)

How do you know the timeline of improvement w women so well .. have you done it before.

look how long it took Neil Strauss. And all the **** he had to do. Same story with you bro. And he had multiple mentors holding his hand.
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