Is this a problem? Because I took this girl on dates and other places, and she seemed like she liked me. I stopped contact with her, but she hasn't texted me in like a week in a half and she talks and hangs out with all her other guy friends. I'm way better looking than them too lol. I thought I would at least been friend zoned. It just feels awkward that we did so much together and it doesn't even end in a friendship or something. This has happened to also the other girls I've talked to and nexted.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thats false friendship. Why would you want that?JPlaya said:
You step to a female and she either is down for your game or not. The "Friendzone" is for men who cant accept the fact that they were rejected by the female so they loiter around in hopes of getting some charity puzzy down the line. smh
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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JPlaya said:
Don't feel bad man. I smoked this girl out with a joint last week and we had a variety of discussions while high and overall had a good chilled out time at her house. When she dropped me off, we gave each other a hug and she swore she said she would smoke me out one day. To this day, she has never called me, texted me, or got in any form of contact with me. I must admit though, I called her the next two or three nights after we chilled and she was too busy hanging out with everyone else. I stopped calling her when it immediately went to voice mail after it rang a couple of times. Like most girls who post statuses about their lives on twitter, it was evident that she was hanging out with a lot of other dudes as well. After three days, I stopped giving a fvck. It's time to move on to something better.
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You haven't wasted a month because if you look at it, you gained a month full of experience on how some women work. Your experience is what makes you who you are today. Use this to your advantage, learn from your mistakes and keep that experience in mind when you're dealing with women in the future.JPlaya said:
A month?! If I talk to a girl for an hour and nothing happens I feel like I wasted my time. A month just means you never escalated.JPlaya said:
Always. Be. Escalating. You want the girl to make a decision about you, either yes or no, so you're not wasting your time.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Sadly, all the survivors from the Titanic have passed.JPlaya said:
You just really need to be escalating.
If you wait too late to initiate and escalate, at 8, you will masturbate. So don't contemplate.
KingBeef
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You don't want female friends, you want female acquaintances who fulfill an exact purpose in your life (friends with benefits, social proof, etc.).
And when you decide to have them, make sure they're hot...
And when you decide to have them, make sure they're hot...
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To turn a girl into a friend with benefits (or to have her reconsider dating you) you cannot, under any circumstances, ask her to do so. Never. Don't debate her, argue with her, rationalize with her, nothing. All that will do is make you look needy. The only shot you have is to do something that elevates you in her eyes. I can't tell you what that behavior should be, it can vary depending on all sorts of things, but she must feel differently about you due to your actions.