"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have you or do you ever just "show up" to a club and end up getting laid?

Have you ever just "showed up" to a club and gotten laid by going with the flow?

  • Yes. I've taken home and banged a girl after not really intitiating anything. She lead me.

    Votes: 7 70.0%

  • No. Every time I've been taken or taken a woman home I've had to put forth effort thru tactics.

    Votes: 3 30.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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Poonani Maker

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Do you have to work at it? or are you just one of those guys who can just go in there not expecting to get laid or having to do anything to hook a girl for later banging.

Do you go in with a plan? Have you got it all mapped out? Think about sets and what you will do in the game situation?

Have you ever just "shown up" and not put in any effort and gone home with a girl and banged her? If so, what type of bar/club was it and what day of the week?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've had both happen to me, where I approached the girl and hung in there and pulled her that night and a few times where I was just sitting there at the end of the night and the girl approached me. But about 90% of the time I have to approach or at least open the girl and I have to put effort and intentions into pulling her.
 
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I don't bang random club skanks. If I'm that horny I just make a booty call or take care of it myself.

I've never seen the appeal in banging a random wh0re where probably hundreds of d*cks have already been, and who knows what she's carrying.

Pass.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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