Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Have you or do you ever just "show up" to a club and end up getting laid?

Have you ever just "showed up" to a club and gotten laid by going with the flow?

  • Yes. I've taken home and banged a girl after not really intitiating anything. She lead me.

    Votes: 7 70.0%
  • No. Every time I've been taken or taken a woman home I've had to put forth effort thru tactics.

    Votes: 3 30.0%

  • Total voters
    10

Poonani Maker

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Do you have to work at it? or are you just one of those guys who can just go in there not expecting to get laid or having to do anything to hook a girl for later banging.

Do you go in with a plan? Have you got it all mapped out? Think about sets and what you will do in the game situation?

Have you ever just "shown up" and not put in any effort and gone home with a girl and banged her? If so, what type of bar/club was it and what day of the week?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ketostix

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I've had both happen to me, where I approached the girl and hung in there and pulled her that night and a few times where I was just sitting there at the end of the night and the girl approached me. But about 90% of the time I have to approach or at least open the girl and I have to put effort and intentions into pulling her.
 

Infamous J

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I don't bang random club skanks. If I'm that horny I just make a booty call or take care of it myself.

I've never seen the appeal in banging a random wh0re where probably hundreds of d*cks have already been, and who knows what she's carrying.

Pass.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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