"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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have you guys seen.....

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40 days, its a movie that comes on comedy central once in awhile, I saw it the other day and decuded I was going to try it out.....

40 days...
no sex of any kind
no wanking



this might be hard, might not be, so far I am on day 3 and feeling fine
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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welcome to my world
what's the point?
 

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just trying to see if I can do it, cant have o.n.s. where I live, you have to be in a relationship (just the way the chicks in my town are, most of them anyway). Seeing as I am not really looking for a relationship, so no nookie for me.
 

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i am me

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If you're REALLY gonna do that then make a bet with your friends so you at least GET something out of it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah, me and some of my friends are starting over on next monday, gonna be fun
 
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