"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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brenbaus

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40 days, its a movie that comes on comedy central once in awhile, I saw it the other day and decuded I was going to try it out.....

40 days...
no sex of any kind
no wanking



this might be hard, might not be, so far I am on day 3 and feeling fine
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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welcome to my world
what's the point?
 

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just trying to see if I can do it, cant have o.n.s. where I live, you have to be in a relationship (just the way the chicks in my town are, most of them anyway). Seeing as I am not really looking for a relationship, so no nookie for me.
 

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i am me

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If you're REALLY gonna do that then make a bet with your friends so you at least GET something out of it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah, me and some of my friends are starting over on next monday, gonna be fun
 
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