"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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have you guys met a woman who look hot but she appears too expensive to date?

picard

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have you guys met a woman who look hot but she appears too expensive to date?



I saw several hot women who look very attractive but I am hesitant to approach them out of intimidation of rejection. The only people who can afford these women are very wealthy men or head of state.

what's your technique of approaching these hot women ? What does it take to hook them in ?

I rarely seen an average guy dating a hot woman.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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picard said:
I rarely seen an average guy dating a hot woman.
Because most average guys think self defeating thoughts which beat them before they get started - just like you do.

Ironically, the kinds of woman that you are talking about are prime targets for some serious C&F. Try it, and make her laugh and feel your way from there. IF you get shot down - well no loss. You were heading home alone anyway.
 

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Dear Picard,
It is wonderful that people advertise their values and aspirations by their dress and manner.....Your letter begs the question why would you want one of these high maintenance girls?There are far more of these pretentious tarts than there are rich and powerful men....funny thing is they often get paired up with similar flimsy would be's if they could be's.....case in point,some years ago I lived in a group living household,one of whose occupants was a dress designer,this girl was really the ants pants when she went out....She was a habituee of a high hat nightclub,where she used to strut her stuff.....One night she struck it lucky,and was bought home in a large Mercedes 600? Limousine....Her Beaux was dressed to the nines,and seemed a very stylish Man.....Later on she found out,much to her chagrin,he was a mere chauffeur,A man known to all as shvagging anything that moved,and if it didn't giving it a push....Goes to show,style is no substitute for substance.
 

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It's these kind of women that I like to target, because more often than not, these are the ones that like to mini-golf, take a walk in the park, and actually end up costing me less.

If you're thinking about all of this before even approaching, then you are most definitely over-thinking the situation and have already lost.

I'm sure the BEST way to find out is approach her, ask her out and see where it goes from there.

Any mention of FOOD being involved or a movie... or BOTH should be an automatic DQ.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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