"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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have you guys met a woman who look hot but she appears too expensive to date?

picard

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have you guys met a woman who look hot but she appears too expensive to date?



I saw several hot women who look very attractive but I am hesitant to approach them out of intimidation of rejection. The only people who can afford these women are very wealthy men or head of state.

what's your technique of approaching these hot women ? What does it take to hook them in ?

I rarely seen an average guy dating a hot woman.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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picard said:
I rarely seen an average guy dating a hot woman.
Because most average guys think self defeating thoughts which beat them before they get started - just like you do.

Ironically, the kinds of woman that you are talking about are prime targets for some serious C&F. Try it, and make her laugh and feel your way from there. IF you get shot down - well no loss. You were heading home alone anyway.
 

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Dear Picard,
It is wonderful that people advertise their values and aspirations by their dress and manner.....Your letter begs the question why would you want one of these high maintenance girls?There are far more of these pretentious tarts than there are rich and powerful men....funny thing is they often get paired up with similar flimsy would be's if they could be's.....case in point,some years ago I lived in a group living household,one of whose occupants was a dress designer,this girl was really the ants pants when she went out....She was a habituee of a high hat nightclub,where she used to strut her stuff.....One night she struck it lucky,and was bought home in a large Mercedes 600? Limousine....Her Beaux was dressed to the nines,and seemed a very stylish Man.....Later on she found out,much to her chagrin,he was a mere chauffeur,A man known to all as shvagging anything that moved,and if it didn't giving it a push....Goes to show,style is no substitute for substance.
 

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It's these kind of women that I like to target, because more often than not, these are the ones that like to mini-golf, take a walk in the park, and actually end up costing me less.

If you're thinking about all of this before even approaching, then you are most definitely over-thinking the situation and have already lost.

I'm sure the BEST way to find out is approach her, ask her out and see where it goes from there.

Any mention of FOOD being involved or a movie... or BOTH should be an automatic DQ.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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