Eternal_water
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gone to a club and managed to dance your way up to a girl and hook up without saying a single word to her and kiss/make out with her, all through non-verbal seduction?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Have you ever...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
the_capn
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nope, but several years ago i got a girl's number by just dancing with her!
Purefilth
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yep, couple of times, I had a decent wingman with me though.
Yes, but I never had to walk up to anyone. They always ended up dancing with, or talking to me. I never approach anyone for ****. Not guys, not girls. All of my friends and dates came from being approached. Probably why they all turned out to be losers. 
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.
But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
Eternal_water
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Hmm definitely something I need to master.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can probably trump that as I did it with kino, although I'd wager it was a one in a million thing.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.