Eternal_water
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gone to a club and managed to dance your way up to a girl and hook up without saying a single word to her and kiss/make out with her, all through non-verbal seduction?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
the_capn
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nope, but several years ago i got a girl's number by just dancing with her!
Purefilth
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yep, couple of times, I had a decent wingman with me though.
Yes, but I never had to walk up to anyone. They always ended up dancing with, or talking to me. I never approach anyone for ****. Not guys, not girls. All of my friends and dates came from being approached. Probably why they all turned out to be losers. 
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.
But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
Eternal_water
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Hmm definitely something I need to master.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I can probably trump that as I did it with kino, although I'd wager it was a one in a million thing.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.