Eternal_water
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gone to a club and managed to dance your way up to a girl and hook up without saying a single word to her and kiss/make out with her, all through non-verbal seduction?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the_capn
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nope, but several years ago i got a girl's number by just dancing with her!
Purefilth
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yep, couple of times, I had a decent wingman with me though.
Yes, but I never had to walk up to anyone. They always ended up dancing with, or talking to me. I never approach anyone for ****. Not guys, not girls. All of my friends and dates came from being approached. Probably why they all turned out to be losers. 
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.
But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
I did end up with a lot of friends and dates, though. Never understood that part, and still don't.But, I remember one time, I was dancing by myself, when a girl came up and started dancing with me. We pretty much took the whole dance floor after a little while, and didn't say **** to each other. But the sparks and vibes were definitely there. We kind of made out and got to groping as we were dancing. It was kind of weird, but cool at the same time. Even as the club closed, we just stared at each other, but still didn't say ****. I don't think a single word was ever exchanged. I could have hit it, but it was already kind of established that we weren't going to talk. Lolz.
People do tell me that I speak at an unusually low level, though. Like, never talking to anyone - unless they talk to me first. Very quiet, reserved, and low key. But, people always end up wanting to hang out, have sex, be friends, date, etc. Strange. Probably has to do with looks and vibes I give off. Or once they get to know me, they realize how social and a good conversationalist I can be. Whatever.
Eternal_water
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Hmm definitely something I need to master.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I can probably trump that as I did it with kino, although I'd wager it was a one in a million thing.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.
Was in a gay club (go there because a friend of mine is a lesbian, but I've also realised there are lots of hot straight women with gay friends, great place to pull). Stood by the bar and a HB8 blonde was walking past, in a strange act of confidence I reached behind me and sort of held her hand, caressed it as she walked past. She sort of slowed down and didn't flinch, rubbed my hand back, then walked off, turning looking at me with a naughty smile. It's weird as sometimes kino can be a magic bullet and feel amazing.
She deliberately walked behind me again about 10 minutes later and I did it again. This time she stopped and sort of stood there for a while holding our hands playing. As she walked off she turned, looked at me in a seductive way, I just went up to her and started making out. Talked a bit afterwards, she was bi, confident herself and said she admired my balls and that "it felt electric because it was so weird". God knows what made me do it, but I did and it worked. Never tried it since though.