"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have you ever seen this?

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Eternal_water

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I was just remembering something that I saw at a club the other day.

There was a guy (guy 1) who had his tongue down some girls throat while she was sitting on his lap, and I thought nothing of it. A while later his friend (guy 2) comes along and they start chatting. The girl looks like she is struggling to stay awake cos she is so drunk.

Guy 1 then points towards the girl on his lap as though offering his friend a biscuit and tells her to snog his friend. So she lifts her head back up and starts snogging guy 2 while still sitting on guy 1. When guy 2 stops she returns to snogging guy 1 and after a while snogs guy 2 again.

This went on for quite a while and they were basically taking it in 1 minute turns to make out with the girl (all the while she continued to sit on the guys lap even when making out with his friend while he watched).


Just thought it a bizarre scene.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nasty.

I shutter to think what they all did to her afterward.

I was at a house party in high school and one of the girls
I went to school with was passed out drunk by the front
door inside the house.

Someone put a "make offer" sign on her.
 
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Ugh why would you kiss a girl immediately after she kissed another guy? For all intents and purposes you made out with him.
 
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zekko

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My reaction is that it sounds disgusting. I think nature teaches us not to value slutty behavior, because if a girl sleeps around a lot, it lessens the chances that your sperm will be the one to impregnate her, and allow your genes to be passed on. Contrast that with women, who supposedly are drawn to men who have been with a lot of girls.

However, I don't doubt that this spit swapping tale sounds like a perfect evening for some of the guys here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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