"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you ever seen this?

Eternal_water

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I was just remembering something that I saw at a club the other day.

There was a guy (guy 1) who had his tongue down some girls throat while she was sitting on his lap, and I thought nothing of it. A while later his friend (guy 2) comes along and they start chatting. The girl looks like she is struggling to stay awake cos she is so drunk.

Guy 1 then points towards the girl on his lap as though offering his friend a biscuit and tells her to snog his friend. So she lifts her head back up and starts snogging guy 2 while still sitting on guy 1. When guy 2 stops she returns to snogging guy 1 and after a while snogs guy 2 again.

This went on for quite a while and they were basically taking it in 1 minute turns to make out with the girl (all the while she continued to sit on the guys lap even when making out with his friend while he watched).


Just thought it a bizarre scene.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pdx1138

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Nasty.

I shutter to think what they all did to her afterward.

I was at a house party in high school and one of the girls
I went to school with was passed out drunk by the front
door inside the house.

Someone put a "make offer" sign on her.
 

Vidrio

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Ugh why would you kiss a girl immediately after she kissed another guy? For all intents and purposes you made out with him.
 

zekko

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My reaction is that it sounds disgusting. I think nature teaches us not to value slutty behavior, because if a girl sleeps around a lot, it lessens the chances that your sperm will be the one to impregnate her, and allow your genes to be passed on. Contrast that with women, who supposedly are drawn to men who have been with a lot of girls.

However, I don't doubt that this spit swapping tale sounds like a perfect evening for some of the guys here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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