"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dadmonson

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Seemed perfect for you and you could tell that she felt the same way about you? You could both feel that there was some sort of tension between you two? You haven't even talked to her yet but judging from her demeanor you could very easily see yourself marrying her?

Do you know what I'm talking about?

If you have experienced this, how did you and the girl end up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dragoo

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Yup I had that happen with a girl I had English class with. I never talked too her but I could tell that we both felt like something was there.
 
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I have felt like this before.. but don't expect anything. If you do, and she backs out.. you will be devastated. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Usually peopel date for years before they know if they want to be married.

Sure you have good chemistry and you enjoy each other's company.. but dont expect anything. Just let it develop on its own.
 
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Don't be like that couple on Dr. Phil that dated for 2 weeks and then 2 weeks later got married. They were also 30 (the women) and the guy just turned 19. Weird stuff. Well at least it was to me.
 
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i think it may be genetic because there are certain types of girls i consistantly develope sexual tension with very quickly

however sarging has left me a bit more jaded and I don't really develope feelings for a girl I am not even talking too...imo thats sorta afc
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had sexual tension with this girl i worked with and we would always talk sh*t to each other. We hung out one night at a park and watch some dbags play with fireworks while sitting in the back of her truck. We started making out hardcore the minute they left. But that was as far as it went. Im glad i know more now than i did then.
 
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Yeah, I've felt that tension before. And sadly, there were times I didn't do anything about it. Honestly, all you need is balls my friend. Balls will get you more mileage than anything else.
 
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