"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dadmonson

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Seemed perfect for you and you could tell that she felt the same way about you? You could both feel that there was some sort of tension between you two? You haven't even talked to her yet but judging from her demeanor you could very easily see yourself marrying her?

Do you know what I'm talking about?

If you have experienced this, how did you and the girl end up?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dragoo

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Yup I had that happen with a girl I had English class with. I never talked too her but I could tell that we both felt like something was there.
 
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I have felt like this before.. but don't expect anything. If you do, and she backs out.. you will be devastated. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Usually peopel date for years before they know if they want to be married.

Sure you have good chemistry and you enjoy each other's company.. but dont expect anything. Just let it develop on its own.
 
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Don't be like that couple on Dr. Phil that dated for 2 weeks and then 2 weeks later got married. They were also 30 (the women) and the guy just turned 19. Weird stuff. Well at least it was to me.
 
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i think it may be genetic because there are certain types of girls i consistantly develope sexual tension with very quickly

however sarging has left me a bit more jaded and I don't really develope feelings for a girl I am not even talking too...imo thats sorta afc
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I had sexual tension with this girl i worked with and we would always talk sh*t to each other. We hung out one night at a park and watch some dbags play with fireworks while sitting in the back of her truck. We started making out hardcore the minute they left. But that was as far as it went. Im glad i know more now than i did then.
 
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Yeah, I've felt that tension before. And sadly, there were times I didn't do anything about it. Honestly, all you need is balls my friend. Balls will get you more mileage than anything else.
 
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