"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you ever done this as a tactic to spike her IL? How did it turn out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have, but not to spike her interest. She is a super-hot nurse who was off-limits to me for reasons I wont get into. We sort of bonded over a wedding/camping trip, and I actively tried to avoid her. She tried to get my number and I gave her 867-5309, and brushed her off a lot. All in fun, but I was trying to NOT be interested in her, as dating her would have created very serious problems for me. Anyway, a year or so went by, and she started coming on to me HARD over facebook, and I finally said fvck it, and I'll deal with the consequences. So, we went out, and she shot down my escalation, and ljbf'd ME. I told her over and over i would'nt actively be her friend, but she pursues me in that way. It really pissed me off, cuz she's supercool, and a good 9 in looks, and makes good money and fun. Since she pursued my friendship so hard, I just went super pervy on her till she backed off. We hang out in the bar her and there, but not like she wanted.

My advice is, dont do this on purpose. She was enthralled that I rejected her, but as soon as I showed I was interested in her back, she got bored. I trust it is the same with most other hot chicks. Actually, most hot chicks wouldnt care, and just find some guy who is a challenge, yet not a huge effort for her to land. Thats what you want to be.

If you do this on purpose, you're committing advanced supplication. Be a challenge, but within her grasp if you want her.
 
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Have you ever done this as a tactic to spike her IL? How did it turn out?
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Fvck no. Why would I do that? More importantly, why are you thinking about doing that? Is it that bad? I've heard of ganga games (or whatever it's called), but it's never worked for me. Do yourself a favor and say fvck this girl. As a last resort you might give her a direct shot like, "We need to hang out some time." That's your last hope, and it sounds like you don't have much of one.

One thing I've learned in my many years - I'm young, I know - is that women aren't worth wasting time over. There's always another one. Give it your best go, if that doesn't work, fvck her. There's always another one. Don't harp on one. There will be a new one tomorrow, or the next day, or the next day. Never give up, pimpin.
 
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