Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Have you ever LJBFed a girl you wanna bone?

piday314

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Have you ever done this as a tactic to spike her IL? How did it turn out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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horaholic

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I have, but not to spike her interest. She is a super-hot nurse who was off-limits to me for reasons I wont get into. We sort of bonded over a wedding/camping trip, and I actively tried to avoid her. She tried to get my number and I gave her 867-5309, and brushed her off a lot. All in fun, but I was trying to NOT be interested in her, as dating her would have created very serious problems for me. Anyway, a year or so went by, and she started coming on to me HARD over facebook, and I finally said fvck it, and I'll deal with the consequences. So, we went out, and she shot down my escalation, and ljbf'd ME. I told her over and over i would'nt actively be her friend, but she pursues me in that way. It really pissed me off, cuz she's supercool, and a good 9 in looks, and makes good money and fun. Since she pursued my friendship so hard, I just went super pervy on her till she backed off. We hang out in the bar her and there, but not like she wanted.

My advice is, dont do this on purpose. She was enthralled that I rejected her, but as soon as I showed I was interested in her back, she got bored. I trust it is the same with most other hot chicks. Actually, most hot chicks wouldnt care, and just find some guy who is a challenge, yet not a huge effort for her to land. Thats what you want to be.

If you do this on purpose, you're committing advanced supplication. Be a challenge, but within her grasp if you want her.
 
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piday314 said:
Have you ever done this as a tactic to spike her IL? How did it turn out?
Fvck no. Why would I do that? More importantly, why are you thinking about doing that? Is it that bad? I've heard of ganga games (or whatever it's called), but it's never worked for me. Do yourself a favor and say fvck this girl. As a last resort you might give her a direct shot like, "We need to hang out some time." That's your last hope, and it sounds like you don't have much of one.

One thing I've learned in my many years - I'm young, I know - is that women aren't worth wasting time over. There's always another one. Give it your best go, if that doesn't work, fvck her. There's always another one. Don't harp on one. There will be a new one tomorrow, or the next day, or the next day. Never give up, pimpin.
 
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