You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, i did. I'm a trader however i trade my own retail and "clients" money (family) and i get percentage of gains. Anyone who trades for a living or has been a success knows that emotional and mental focus needs to be on point when trading. I ended up losing A LOT! of money because i couldnt focus. i was making stupid decisions and it led me to feeling even more depressed. Im Ok now and getting back on track but the damage was bad because of the break up or should i say the branch swing?.MatureDJ said: