"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have you ever let a breakup interfere with your career?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In2theGame

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MatureDJ said:
Yes, i did. I'm a trader however i trade my own retail and "clients" money (family) and i get percentage of gains. Anyone who trades for a living or has been a success knows that emotional and mental focus needs to be on point when trading. I ended up losing A LOT! of money because i couldnt focus. i was making stupid decisions and it led me to feeling even more depressed. Im Ok now and getting back on track but the damage was bad because of the break up or should i say the branch swing?.
 

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Dear Mature DJ....Of course traumatic events will effect every facet of your life...The measure of a Man is his ability to overcome them....If necessary pick up his bundle and get on with life....It is after all the only one we ever get!
 
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