"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have you ever got salty for being rejected by avg looking chick that you were going to use for sex

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Then felt disgusted you could scoop so low just to get laid and know you could do way better .I got rejected by 2 avg looking chicks. Only if these chicks knew that I am hella disgusted to scoop so low and that and do way better. The worse part is they think believe they have 1 up when telling their circle.

That is why for now on Im only asking out chicks that are at least pretty or look 7/10 or better and around my age(25 ish). I always felt at home approaching good looking chicks. Anyways just a rant to clear my head a little.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ummm...OK.

Why would you feel mad? She's probably doing you a favor so you work on getting better
 

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Yeah but I don't think there's a big difference in my rejection rates with 6s vs 8s
 

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No. I don’t care about that. Rejection is fine. It’s just when they are ARROGANT enough to think they’re above me. Because I’ve seen girls hotter than them take a strange interest in me. Girls who looks-wise should have been way out of my league. Those 9s and 10s (the naturally born ones, not the ones who get there through makeup and clothes) tend to have higher self esteem than other girls. And because of that, they’re almost like an inverted version of the average girl. Avg girls want a hot guy and don’t care about his inner core. They’ll just become unattracted over time. Those stunners look for something else. Not so much any of that shallow ****, you just have to show that you care about yourself. But they want to see that inner strength. And when you aren’t a wuss in a sea of wusses, then you stand out and they see you. Those real hot chicks are the ones who’ve had double takes on me and stare at me and analyze me and my demeanor when they think I’m not looking. And your flabby muffin top ass thinks you’re better than me? **** you. That’s when I get mad.
 

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No. I don’t care about that. Rejection is fine. It’s just when they are ARROGANT enough to think they’re above me. Because I’ve seen girls hotter than them take a strange interest in me. Girls who looks-wise should have been way out of my league. Those 9s and 10s (the naturally born ones, not the ones who get there through makeup and clothes) tend to have higher self esteem than other girls. And because of that, they’re almost like an inverted version of the average girl. Avg girls want a hot guy and don’t care about his inner core. They’ll just become unattracted over time. Those stunners look for something else. Not so much any of that shallow ****, you just have to show that you care about yourself. But they want to see that inner strength. And when you aren’t a wuss in a sea of wusses, then you stand out and they see you. Those real hot chicks are the ones who’ve had double takes on me and stare at me and analyze me and my demeanor when they think I’m not looking. And your flabby muffin top ass thinks you’re better than me? **** you. That’s when I get mad.
Lol dude you just summed up what I really wanted to open up about. I hate avg looking girls who think they’re above guys who know they could do better from experiences.
Ummm...OK.

Why would you feel mad? She's probably doing you a favor so you work on getting better
It’s the arrogance they have for what they look like vs the fact I could do way better according to my experiences. But then again it’s my fault for approaching ugly chicks thinking they’d be an easy lay. If one doesn’t actually like me I have no right to get mad,really. Lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you care what a chick beneath you thinks about you? Why do you care what any chick thinks about you? What's important is if they are telling you something that is true that you could learn from. If not, big who cares.
 

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Why do you care what a chick beneath you thinks about you? Why do you care what any chick thinks about you? What's important is if they are telling you something that is true that you could learn from. If not, big who cares.
What's the diff between don juan,master,and senior,as well as moderator on this site?
Why do I only sometimes get alerts regarding replies to my posts? I'm going to check setting right now
 

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Lol dude you just summed up what I really wanted to open up about. I hate avg looking girls who think they’re above guys who know they could do better from experiences.

It’s the arrogance they have for what they look like vs the fact I could do way better according to my experiences. But then again it’s my fault for approaching ugly chicks thinking they’d be an easy lay. If one doesn’t actually like me I have no right to get mad,really. Lol
Yeah. And what bothers me more is that sometimes they actually think I’m hitting on them. Like no *****, maybe I just feel like talking to people. Not every guy who looks at you likes you or wants to bang. You aren’t the type of girl that I would even WANT to hit on or get with. It’s just their ego showing. Mine only comes out when others’ do first.
 

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What's the diff between don juan,master,and senior,as well as moderator on this site?
Why do I only sometimes get alerts regarding replies to my posts? I'm going to check setting right now
Not sure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's the diff between don juan,master,and senior,as well as moderator on this site?
Why do I only sometimes get alerts regarding replies to my posts? I'm going to check setting right now
Post count, except for moderator
 

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Wow are you kidding me? I thought it was based off of how much experience with chicks we have from some sort of counter on lays,encounters,dates,etc. Not going to lie kind of disappointed as I thought master/senior don juans are true experts at every question I post but now I only know that they just post a lot.
 

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Because it says that my experiences, successes and effort are worth nothing and that she is automatically above me just because she has a vagina.
Still better off not caring.

Actually, the proper word should be indifferent.

Practice being indifferent towards women that rejects you.

And you would be fine.
 

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Still better off not caring.

Actually, the proper word should be indifferent.

Practice being indifferent towards women that rejects you.

And you would be fine.
Not rejection. Who gives af about being rejected?? I said ARROGANCE. That is what pisses me off. If a homeless bum walks up to you and spits at your feet and calls you trash because you didn’t give him money, you’re gonna just be indifferent? I’d give him a piece of mind. There are times to be indifferent and times to know when to put someone in their place. Self esteem is what makes you indifferent. Self respect is what makes you not HAVE to be indifferent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not rejection. Who gives af about being rejected?? I said ARROGANCE. That is what pisses me off. If a homeless bum walks up to you and spits at your feet and calls you trash because you didn’t give him money, you’re gonna just be indifferent? I’d give him a piece of mind. There are times to be indifferent and times to know when to put someone in their place. Self esteem is what makes you indifferent. Self respect is what makes you not HAVE to be indifferent.
They can be as arrogant as they want and I'd be indifferent towards it.

Does it take so little to bruise ur ego?
 

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They can be as arrogant as they want and I'd be indifferent towards it.

Does it take so little to bruise ur ego?
Then I can talk as much **** about you as I want? And you won't do anything about it? Hahahahaha
 

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Then I can talk as much **** about you as I want? And you won't do anything about it? Hahahahaha
Yes u hv my permission.

As matter of fact I've been called bastard, a@@hole, son of a bitvh, handsome, ugly, good etc etc...

Everything abt me is so super...

Like super man ;)
 

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Then felt disgusted you could scoop so low just to get laid and know you could do way better .I got rejected by 2 avg looking chicks. Only if these chicks knew that I am hella disgusted to scoop so low and that and do way better. The worse part is they think believe they have 1 up when telling their circle.

That is why for now on Im only asking out chicks that are at least pretty or look 7/10 or better and around my age(25 ish). I always felt at home approaching good looking chicks. Anyways just a rant to clear my head a little.
often fat chicks make screens of me texting them on tinder and show it to their friends on facebook. well dont expect anything from women in general you will be much happier in life lol
 

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Yes u hv my permission.

As matter of fact I've been called bastard, a@@hole, son of a bitvh, handsome, ugly, good etc etc...

Everything abt me is so super...

Like super man ;)
No I'm not going to lol. It's just funny to think about. If someone calls me anything, I won't let it affect my day in any way really. But I will tell them some stuff they should probably know. I'm not a very passive person
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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