"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you ever get a number from a girl that wasnt sending IOI ?

evan12

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so you are in a cafe and there is a girl sitting there , she is not sending any IOI (indicate of interest ) , but she is not in *****y mood either ,she is just normal and may be sometimes look at you in fast glances

Have you ever tried to approach this kind of girls and ask her her number .
any success stories when you approach a girl without receiving any IOI from her ?

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chamber36

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Maybe she was sending IOI's but you just didn't see them.

I suggest some fluff or small-talk to probe a girl's IL. She might just be acting blasé or a little shy. You never know until you approach.

A girl turning her back towards you can be an IOI, it all depends on the context.
 

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A significant proportion of women do not give IOI's. My lays, ex-girlfriends, adventures, and make out girls have almost all been non-IOI-giving at the beginning. It all begins with you; most of them are too omega--even if that means just giving you a look or a smile. This is why we--as men--must be confident leaders. Your next lay, girlfriend, or even the woman of your life could be just an approach away. This is why I love dating. If someone doesn't want you, someone else will--always remember that.
 

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A girl turning her back towards you can be an IOI, it all depends on the context.
yeah I know this sign , it is sign of submission that female gave it to a male that she desire

and thank you guys , a lot of times I don't approach girls because I couldn't see a clear IOI
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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