"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever get a number from a girl that wasnt sending IOI ?

evan12

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so you are in a cafe and there is a girl sitting there , she is not sending any IOI (indicate of interest ) , but she is not in *****y mood either ,she is just normal and may be sometimes look at you in fast glances

Have you ever tried to approach this kind of girls and ask her her number .
any success stories when you approach a girl without receiving any IOI from her ?

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe she was sending IOI's but you just didn't see them.

I suggest some fluff or small-talk to probe a girl's IL. She might just be acting blasé or a little shy. You never know until you approach.

A girl turning her back towards you can be an IOI, it all depends on the context.
 

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A significant proportion of women do not give IOI's. My lays, ex-girlfriends, adventures, and make out girls have almost all been non-IOI-giving at the beginning. It all begins with you; most of them are too omega--even if that means just giving you a look or a smile. This is why we--as men--must be confident leaders. Your next lay, girlfriend, or even the woman of your life could be just an approach away. This is why I love dating. If someone doesn't want you, someone else will--always remember that.
 

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A girl turning her back towards you can be an IOI, it all depends on the context.
yeah I know this sign , it is sign of submission that female gave it to a male that she desire

and thank you guys , a lot of times I don't approach girls because I couldn't see a clear IOI
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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