"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you ever filmed yourself in a social interaction?

Huffman

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Whenever I see videos with myself in them, I notice that I don't appear as suave as I imagine myself to be.

Now I want to get lots of footage of myself so I can work on how I truly look. You know, like a musician will record himself to analyze his playing.

You think there's a good way to do that? I can't really carry a camera around with me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who Dares Win

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I saw myself in pictures and short clip taken with friends, to be honest Im surprised I managed to have a decent sexual life, Im serious no jokes in here.

If I were to see someone else behaving like I do I would be in doubt if to beat him or help him or even both.

I guess we all have a wrong perception of ourselves and how we should be.
 

MtnMan

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i hate how i look in pictures and videos, its strange. It would definitely be interesting to take some field footage to analyze later. Especially when the drinks are flowing.
 

apprenticedj

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I think this would be brillant idea for most of us, pretty cringeworthy I'm sure but helpful none the less.

Maybe look into one of those tiny lapel cams? Something that's about button sized, maybe put it in your hat.

God help you if you get caught though, it would look very odd to most.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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