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Have you ever felt your LTR is sapping your game?

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Feeling really awkward as this is my first LTR and it's been a year and a few months now. She's a really lovely girl, HB10 in my eyes honestly and I do feel I've held it down quite well.

However, I do feel this LTR has changed me as a person- not in a good way. I talk to less girls and I don't go out as much. I used to dedicate my life to getting laid, and I was the one of the most successful guys I knew.

Now I've calmed down over the past year and trying real hard to stay faithful. I guess I've subconsciously distanced myself from temptation. I doubt whether I still "got it" and I'm paranoid about going AFC.

I think my girls starting to pick up on these vibes, but it's like wtf do I do? Start sarging again to gain back my skills?

It feels awkward now because it's like I got some shield up now, and I know if I let it down I'll probably go too far. How do you guys keep your game up when in an LTR?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Elti Boi said:
Feeling really awkward as this is my first LTR and it's been a year and a few months now. She's a really lovely girl, HB10 in my eyes honestly and I do feel I've held it down quite well.

However, I do feel this LTR has changed me as a person- not in a good way. I talk to less girls and I don't go out as much. I used to dedicate my life to getting laid, and I was the one of the most successful guys I knew.

Now I've calmed down over the past year and trying real hard to stay faithful. I guess I've subconsciously distanced myself from temptation. I doubt whether I still "got it" and I'm paranoid about going AFC.

I think my girls starting to pick up on these vibes, but it's like wtf do I do? Start sarging again to gain back my skills?

It feels awkward now because it's like I got some shield up now, and I know if I let it down I'll probably go too far. How do you guys keep your game up when in an LTR?
You first sentence that I bolded is the whole problem right there. You're in a LTR. That's the whole problem. Just get out and everything will be fine.

Remember women want relationships, men don't.

Men were not meant to be monogamous only going after one girl. If nature was a person, he would slap you in the face. :trouble:
 
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