"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have you ever felt your LTR is sapping your game?

the pokemaster

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Feeling really awkward as this is my first LTR and it's been a year and a few months now. She's a really lovely girl, HB10 in my eyes honestly and I do feel I've held it down quite well.

However, I do feel this LTR has changed me as a person- not in a good way. I talk to less girls and I don't go out as much. I used to dedicate my life to getting laid, and I was the one of the most successful guys I knew.

Now I've calmed down over the past year and trying real hard to stay faithful. I guess I've subconsciously distanced myself from temptation. I doubt whether I still "got it" and I'm paranoid about going AFC.

I think my girls starting to pick up on these vibes, but it's like wtf do I do? Start sarging again to gain back my skills?

It feels awkward now because it's like I got some shield up now, and I know if I let it down I'll probably go too far. How do you guys keep your game up when in an LTR?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pimply_Pimp

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Elti Boi said:
Feeling really awkward as this is my first LTR and it's been a year and a few months now. She's a really lovely girl, HB10 in my eyes honestly and I do feel I've held it down quite well.

However, I do feel this LTR has changed me as a person- not in a good way. I talk to less girls and I don't go out as much. I used to dedicate my life to getting laid, and I was the one of the most successful guys I knew.

Now I've calmed down over the past year and trying real hard to stay faithful. I guess I've subconsciously distanced myself from temptation. I doubt whether I still "got it" and I'm paranoid about going AFC.

I think my girls starting to pick up on these vibes, but it's like wtf do I do? Start sarging again to gain back my skills?

It feels awkward now because it's like I got some shield up now, and I know if I let it down I'll probably go too far. How do you guys keep your game up when in an LTR?
You first sentence that I bolded is the whole problem right there. You're in a LTR. That's the whole problem. Just get out and everything will be fine.

Remember women want relationships, men don't.

Men were not meant to be monogamous only going after one girl. If nature was a person, he would slap you in the face. :trouble:
 
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