Have you ever felt this way or am I weird?

[Blaise]

Never ever really "liked" girls. I mean there have only been two but that's it.

I'm not saying I'm gay or whatever (never been turned on by a guy lol). I'm attracted to girls and I would definitely tap that hot ass that walks by the street (its in my nature). But it doesn't necessarily mean I "like" her.

like, infatuated, seduced, whatever... I mean it might be a good idea that I don't "like" girls since I won't get attached easily.

Question to vet DJs:
Ever felt like you could meet someone who has the same ideals as you or someone you can just naturally click with all the time and also be your lover (had that but no lover part)? Something like a soulmate?

Or the fact that there really are no soulmates exist and this is part of being a hopeless romantic (which I was/am and want to get out of)? :kick:

Just wanna know your take/experience.

I just wanna restate that women aren't my main priority, but helping myself reach my potential and find genuine happiness for myself. That's why I'm here.

 

[Ice882]

I've never really loved a girl. I've certainly liked them, though. I'm young, though.

 

[sodbuster]

Feel that way all the time,Women are only good for sex and kids. After that, I'd rather talk to a man,be friends with a man, etc. At least we usually have SOME sense of decency and honor.

 

[Blaise]

Feel that way all the time,Women are only good for sex and kids. After that, I'd rather talk to a man,be friends with a man, etc. At least we usually have SOME sense of decency and honor.

Thanks. Just need a friend like in "I Love You, Man". It's hard to find a good buddy who likes the same activities and understands you and also doesn't flake and ****.

I met a girl like that and best friends 2 years but you know how that ends.

So I'm guessing there's no woman that's best of both worlds...

 

[zekko]

So I'm guessing there's no woman that's best of both worlds...

It's interesting to me to see all the guys who post on here who are actually only interested in women for sex. I think they make pretty good companions honestly (well, the quality ones anyway). I don't mean as "friends" becaue I am always skeptical about male/female friendships. But if you find a girl you like who shares your values and goals, I think relationships can be quite enjoyable.

There's something about the personality of women that meshes well with a man and compliments him. There isn't that competitiveness that's usually present in friendships with men. I would much rather go out and do something with a woman than with a guy, as long as she's cool. Yeah, at some point I'm going to want sex from her, but that just adds another element. Vive le difference, as they say. So yeah, I like girls.

 

[Exhumed]

I think girls are entertaining, but I disagree about the competition...only my insecure friends are competitive socially, and being competitive at sports and videogames and whatnot is a good thing. Sh!t tests are a form of competition...girls are always testing my dominance, whereas with my male friends, as long as I don't take sh!t from them initially they don't really do that.

 

[Perfect10]

I felt this way when I wasn't getting laid.
When I stared getting women in my life and sex from them I somehow want to know more of them