Have you ever felt suicidal because of girls?

[AlmostThere!]

I have...more than once. Just curious how the rest of the community feels.

 

[DonJuanit0]

I've felt this only one time and never after and didn't actually stop on thinking! Went to hospital and got my stomach cleaned! Bad story... I was way too young and fool I guess! :/

 

[st_99]

Its just a testament to how powerful our biological programming to reproduce is. I guess its our human species survival mechanism at work when we get so outraged and crazy over a girl. Just my thought.

 

[(JJ)]

wow im legitimately surprised that such a large percentage answered yes. DONT DO IT GUYS

 

[katatonia]

Feminist brainwashed society ftw.

 

[AlmostThere!]

I'm surprised too at the amount of yes'es.

 

[Desdinova]

I threatened it once just for the pity and hope that she wouldn't dump me, but I wasn't serious about it. So I guess the answer is no.

I had other problems that made me suicidal.

 

[romangod]

They say everyone during their lifetime has considered suicide. I know that in my teens the thought came up on occasion.

I would guess many have thought about it because of a woman.


Cheers!

 

[KontrollerX]

I threatened it once just for the pity and hope that she wouldn't dump me, but I wasn't serious about it. So I guess the answer is no.

I had other problems that made me suicidal.

Co-sign.

 

[horaholic]

I was so low after a breakup once that i was afraid I was going to become suicidal, so I saw a therapist and got on meds, which worked wonders for me personally, so I guess thats a no. My home town has a really bad track record for guys killing themselves over girls. I didnt want to feel that way, and I was scared I was going to get worse, so I did something about it.

 

[PRMoon]

Suicidal yes briefly. Over a girl? Never. I've never even come close to the notion of ending it all over a person in our around my life. There are certainly issues that have seemed very overwhelming to me but i can't put an individuals name on them.

 

[Energizer]

I've felt this only one time and never after and didn't actually stop on thinking! Went to hospital and got my stomach cleaned! Bad story... I was way too young and fool I guess! :/

Same I tried to clear two bottles of industrial sized Jack Daniels, got through one and a quarter of the second one and was hospitalised, it was the worst New Years Eve I have endured, almost four years ago now. Since then I have vowed never to let a woman or anyone make me so weak, I could died and all because of some wh*re.

Of course no chance of that happening again, Sosuave has taught how to deal with women.

 

[Colossus]

When I was younger I went through periods of legitimate clinical depression accompanied by suicidal thoughts. I never acted on it. It was usually catalyzed by a rejection from a girl, but I always knew there were deeper issues there. In college I went to see a therapist about this stuff, and it did worlds of good. I never believed in meds unless it was a biochemical problem that couldn't be solved cognitively. Most problems can.

 

[blinkwatt101]

Personally I haven't, some members of my family are the coolest people that I can imagine and if I'm ever down(for any reason) I can count on them to cheer me back up.

One of my friends has been in a mental facility after a mental breakdown after his girlfriend left him and he threatened to kill himself with a knife on her lawn.

 

[Cry For Love]

 

[Maxtro]

Not a day goes by that I don't think about it.

I've been seeing a counselor at my university once a week for the past 2 months. While it's great to actually talk to somebody about how I feel; I knew she was too inexperienced to actually provide any guidance.

If nothing changes I don't plan to make it to 30. If I can't find a girl when I'm in college how the hell am going to find one elsewhere?

The last thing I want to do is be an 'adult' going to work every day and coming home to my empty house. That isn't living.

 

[Quiksilver]

I couldn't imagine ever feeling truly down about a girl... Haven't met one yet who was worth even being depressed about.

I think the real question is:

"Have you ever felt suicidal because of YOURSELF?"

If YOU suck, then sure it can be depressing, but you can always do positive stuff to improve yourself, and it feels good doing that.

A good positive thought for those who think themselves as pathetic:

Your ancestral genetics go back millions and billions of years, and all of them were able to get laid. The difference? They didn't have the internet, they didn't have moms basement, and they had responsibility.

99% of guys who don't get laid these days spend far too much time at home and on the internet, and have very little responsibility. Get a job, move into your own place, get a small pet, get some hobbies, and make some friends.

 

[The_flying_dutchman]

I've felt suicidal at a few points in my life because of girls in general, but never over a specific girl. I only just pondered it.

The one time in my life when I seriously contemplated and would have actually carried out a suicide was because of financial disaster. I'm happy to say that after a lot of hard work that I got my life back on track. And I try to be thankful for it everyday though I confess that sometimes I take what I have for granted.

 

[Da Realist]

I've had those thoughts, but there was something in me that basically called me to keep living and fighting. That's when I realized I didn't want to die: I just wanted to get myself out of that mess.

 

[Maxtro]

Howabout moving to another country instead of killing yourself?

How would moving out of the country change anything? The only thing that would happen is that I would lose what ever of a support network I have that is my family.

Get a job, move into your own place, get a small pet, get some hobbies, and make some friends.

You don't know much about depression do you?

Getting a job and supporting yourself have no affect on depression, it may make actually it worse because of the loneliness that is associated to coming home to an empty home.

Having hobbies and friends are essential but it's not easy to get either.

When one is depressed it's hard to really enjoy doing anything. This past year I've tried playing softball, surfing and salsa dancing and I don't love any of them. The reasons why I don't fully enjoy any of those ties into my second point.

Making friends is much harder than people assume it is. I don't know how many years it's been that I had a real friend. The only person that I even hung out with in 5 or so years was some dumb bitch that I had oneitis for.

I feel like I'm stuck in a downward spiral, losing track of the reasons why I should keep on trying.

Every single day is wake up, go to school, come home, play video games, go to bed. One some weekends I don't even leave my apartment.