"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have You Ever Come Across Females in Public that Do This?

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- Girl is standing on the sidewalk waiting for a cab, but her head is down typing away on her phone. You say something to her or ask her a question but she never looks up. Her eyes are literally glued to her phone.

- Girl at the bar with her head facing down chatting away on her phone. You ask her a question and she gives you a pathetic one word response, while still looking at her phone and doesn't even acknowledge you eye to eye.

I'm trying to find out how common this is for everyone else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It’s the new 21st century addiction. Very common, but it robs people of personal interactions in severe cases…
It birthed of the term - Glued to her phone.
 
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We're all going to be like the people in Wall-E before long.
 

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why do you care?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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- Girl is standing on the sidewalk waiting for a cab, but her head is down typing away on her phone. You say something to her or ask her a question but she never looks up. Her eyes are literally glued to her phone.

- Girl at the bar with her head facing down chatting away on her phone. You ask her a question and she gives you a pathetic one word response, while still looking at her phone and doesn't even acknowledge you eye to eye.

I'm trying to find out how common this is for everyone else.
I've actually never had this happen to me, or at least not initially

I usually get them to look up at least once at the beginning.

Could it be that you're boring? Only approaching girls who are obviously busy? Ignoring obvious disinterest? Etc.
 
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