Here is the situation. I have a friend who met this girl a month ago. He didn't have the courage to ask her out. Yesterday I happen to bump into her. So I know a little about her from my friend. So I went up to her and open with "You are the girl that works at... " Then we talked a little bit and I mention about my friend to her. How he likes her but was too shy to ask her out. So I ask her for her number for him. I also told her that if my friend doesn't call her, I'll give her a call myself, leaving myself as an option. So here's my problem. I do like this girl. She is cute and sweet. But my friend saw her first. If I don't pass it to him, I would feel dishonorable. If I do, I feel regret. What would you do?
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ApocalypseCow2
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Tell your friend: "Look, dude, I'll give you one week to get her number and ask her out yourself. If you don't, I'm moving in."
Just talk to your friend casualy and bring her up. See what he has to say about her and if hhe even REALLY cares about her or not. The if he doesnt, then just start texting her and talking to her on the phone & get closer to her etc.... Then by the time thigs start getting serious with you and her, your friend will be long obver her and probably wont mind that u went for her. But dont rush into anything, dont make ur friend feel that ur putting some chick before ur friendship with him, so DO NOT say things like "i'm gonna give u a week", because thats just wrong and thats something a friend doesnt do.
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OneArmDeeJay
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Leave it alone!
You both are putting ho before bro and it might just cost your friendship.
Your friend wants to go out with this chick and he asked you to get her number cause he didn't have the nerve to do it.
And you did for what? For your buddy.
Let your friend have this one.
And if it don't work out then asked if it's cool that you give it a try.
Personally I would just forget her because there are plenty of other hotter women then her.
But it all depends on your bud and how cool he is when it comes to woman.
To me it don't matter theres lots to go around and if I fail at one I don't mind if my buddy trys. and same goes for him
it all just depends but its always safe bet just to forget about her and find another girl especially if your friend is all AFC.
You both are putting ho before bro and it might just cost your friendship.
Your friend wants to go out with this chick and he asked you to get her number cause he didn't have the nerve to do it.
And you did for what? For your buddy.
Let your friend have this one.
And if it don't work out then asked if it's cool that you give it a try.
Personally I would just forget her because there are plenty of other hotter women then her.
But it all depends on your bud and how cool he is when it comes to woman.
To me it don't matter theres lots to go around and if I fail at one I don't mind if my buddy trys. and same goes for him
it all just depends but its always safe bet just to forget about her and find another girl especially if your friend is all AFC.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
My friend never asked me to ask her. I did that on my own with the intention of getting the number for my friend (we both thought we'll never run into her again), but by chance I bump into her and approach. After the girl and I talked and I see she is cute and sweet. And so I told her I'll give her a call if my friend doesn't so she knows that I'm interested too. Of course I value my frienship, that's why I posted my feeling on this. I would feel dishonorable but at the same time, I feel regret. I already know what I plan to do but only offer this scenerio to see what others would do if they were in my shoes.
OneArmDeeJay
Senior Don Juan
Oh my bad well,
I think you want to see what other do and view it so you won't feel bad.
Again what's to regret?
That you will miss this grand o’ opportunity to date a cute and sweet chick?
There are a billion other HOTTER girls out there.
If you feel it is wrong then that is a definitely a sign not to do it.
Always trust your gut.
And If you live by a code then live by it and stick to it.
I was in a sort of similar situation and just kept the chick for myself...
He had no cell and used mine to get this girls #.
Long story short, she calls looking for him and realizes its me and starts with lots of interest towards me...He says I can keep her after hearing a voicemail.
Thats my boy right there! Would never have done it w/out his permission and he would never say no
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Say to her.....
"My friend wants to kiss you, like this."
Kiss her.
"My friend wants to slowly feel you up, like this."
Feel her up.
"My friend wants to make love to you, like this."
She'll say, "oooh, you're so big."
Say, "That's my friend!"
"My friend wants to kiss you, like this."
Kiss her.
"My friend wants to slowly feel you up, like this."
Feel her up.
"My friend wants to make love to you, like this."
She'll say, "oooh, you're so big."
Say, "That's my friend!"
hahahahha nice!Originally posted by GuitarPlayer
Say to her.....
"My friend wants to kiss you, like this."
Kiss her.
"My friend wants to slowly feel you up, like this."
Feel her up.
"My friend wants to make love to you, like this."
She'll say, "oooh, you're so big."
Say, "That's my friend!"
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.