Have you been attracted to women who are not beautiful?

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,350
Reaction score
1,023
Yes. I dated a girl who wasn't that attractive but she loved me like no other woman ever could. The downside of dating a hottie is that she is more likely to love herself than you.
 
Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free!

Espi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 20, 2006
Messages
10,737
Reaction score
2,804
Location
The Bay
I'm attracted to all types, all the time. I aim for the stars and go after skinny big-racked long-legged women but I have also been with enough of them to know that sex appeal comes in all shapes and sizes. I get strong sexual gut feelings about certain unattractive women whom usually, as I suspected, turned out to be sexually phenomenal, usually in the oral dept. because an average-to-ugly woman can suck dvick like a starving woman at a buffet.
 
Last edited:

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
10,244
Reaction score
5,251
Location
DFW, TX
I'm attracted to all types, all the time. I aim for the stars and go after skinny big-racked long-legged women but I have also been with enough of them to know that sex appeal comes in all shapes and sizes. I get strong sexual gut feelings about certain unattractive women who turn out to be sexually phenomenal, usually in the oral dept. because an average-to-ugly woman can suck dvick like a starving woman who just entered a buffet.
Also since their energy is not focused on their outer appearances alot more power in her puzzy. They usually going to please their man more.
 

RickTheToad

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
2,366
Reaction score
1,343
Location
Bridgeport, CT
I'm attracted to all types, all the time. I aim for the stars and go after skinny big-racked long-legged women but I have also been with enough of them to know that sex appeal comes in all shapes and sizes. I get strong sexual gut feelings about certain unattractive women who turn out to be sexually phenomenal, usually in the oral dept. because an average-to-ugly woman can suck dvick like a starving woman who just entered a buffet.
I think they know it too. I do find fvcking with a lady who's of lower SMV to you helps with her enthusiasm with sex. Whereas a lady who knows she's hot seems like she's doing you a favor when having sex with you.
 
Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free!

Kotaix

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2019
Messages
342
Reaction score
278
Age
41
I sort of dated a girl who had burn scars on her chin from a campfire accident. She was pretty badly hung up on the whole thing, but a really nice girl and she was quite pretty despite that. I was the first person ever to touch her scars and she was pretty surprised I even wanted to. Being blue pilled back in the day I ****ed that up horribly and she went on to start dating other guys. Then I found out guys she started dating were calling her Kentucky Fried Casey behind her back. ****ed up, but funny.

I'd rather have a less than totally hot woman who is good than a 10 BPD psycho any day of my life. But if she doesn't make me feel something when I look at her I won't be interested.
 

flowtheory

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2018
Messages
1,416
Reaction score
961
Age
30
Location
So Cal
It’s odd. Sometimes I’m really attracted to unattractive women. Not the heavier ones at all but the clearly less attractive ones. Maybe because I just want to completely dominate them? I’ve had this since I was younger. It has always perplexed me. But I would certainly not date them
 

Tdawg

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2019
Messages
32
Reaction score
33
Location
South Florida
The longer I do this the longer i see cases where I see this girl/woman and clearly she will not win any beauty pageants but my instincts tell me "That one". Everyone loves an HB9 or hB10 but sometime I've seen a woman a decade or two past my age and I find myself wondering.

Sometime I wonder if this is a hiccup in my attraction meter or if she is just my type. Do you guys notice this?
For me, if she has a nice ass, she's beautiful and i'm attracted to her. I'd rather her have a nice ass and butter face than a beautiful face and little boy like body. But that's just me. Fat, skinny, blond brunette, black, white, ..whatever....just a nice ass and it's all good.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
12,448
Reaction score
4,269
Sometimes I see a girl who I consider attractive, but probably would not be considered attractive to most guys.
But she has a certain something that appeals to me.
I always thought finding a girl like this would be like hitting the jackpot. Sort of like finding gold that thieves could not see and would not get corrupted.
 

XThrax

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2019
Messages
78
Reaction score
25
Age
31
Sometimes I see a girl who I consider attractive, but probably would not be considered attractive to most guys.
But she has a certain something that appeals to me.
I always thought finding a girl like this would be like hitting the jackpot. Sort of like finding gold that thieves could not see and would not get corrupted.
In investing I think they call that a niche market. Usually when I find a girl like that try and found out her roots. Maybe I will find more.
 
Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free!

touma.akagi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2017
Messages
218
Reaction score
78
Location
Salt Lake City
There's more to it than looks. A 7 or 8 can increase her attractiveness by smelling good and having a good personality, etc. Makes her definitely more worthwhile than a 7 or 8 with ****ty self-esteem and no social skills.
 

Trump

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2011
Messages
2,960
Reaction score
1,588
Obviously a man gets along a lot better with some women than others, but as long he can have sex with her, that’s all matters.

I think the biggest issue is weight. Age, personality, education, doesn’t matter as much as to how fat they are.
 

Vivacity

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2015
Messages
203
Reaction score
97
Lol, there is no science or surprise about it. People like something that they see often, or on a regular basis, or with gaps or intervals of time. That liking is attraction.

Jon sees regularly the plain Jane who walks her great dane in the neighborhood, and starts liking her. Is that a science/fiction? Yes, it is, in the realm of dating, it is, and everything is.
 

Dr.magnetic

New Member
Joined
Jul 20, 2019
Messages
5
Reaction score
3
Age
24
Location
US
Yes, there's something very attractive and magnetic about a girl who seems 'innocent.'
Even if she doesnt look so hot.
 
Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free!

DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2017
Messages
2,930
Reaction score
1,910
Age
29
The longe
r I do this the longer i see cases where I see this girl/woman and clearly she will not win any beauty pageants but my instincts tell me "That one". Everyone loves an HB9 or hB10 but sometime I've seen a woman a decade or two past my age and I find myself wondering.

Sometime I wonder if this is a hiccup in my attraction meter or if she is just my type. Do you guys notice this?
I opened a set today as per usual. Chick was 6.5 by my standard. I will smash. I blame high testosterone.

Not necessarily the best nor my conventional type HOWEVER, she's cute, feminine, bubbly, energetic, and enthusiastic. It makes me want to SMASH rotten. I want to see her takin my **** and swallowing my proteins.

Another set. Open ended. I would always prefer to swing, pull, and smash then wonder WHAT IF? I advise you to do the same.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
4,486
Reaction score
1,801
Age
20
Location
Right behind you
For most men, its a women's femininity that will be the primary consideration of beautiful or attractive.
This 100%. That's why so many guys like Asian chicks—they're ****ing feminine and aren't self-important progtards like standard Western women. I see 2 girls in my class who are like that right now, one girl's ****ing voice shocked me because it just SOUNDED beautiful, and I remember consciously thinking to myself how she had a wonderful voice. The other girl has a chipped tooth for goodness' sake but holy F*CK is she genuine and sincere, literally makes me want to just grab her and hold her.

I even remember an older woman who was overweight and looked to be in her mid 40s who just started a convo up with me and was so giddy and excited and happy that it turned me on, and my friend was there with me and said the same thing haha. I realized later on that it was probably because she was on antidepressants which is sad but whatever.

Only problem is that I don't know if they're feminine because they are not attractive, or if they are genuinely like that. I've only seen a handful of beautiful women who were ALSO genuine, sincere, sweet, and feminine. It seems that the two have trouble coexisting.
 

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2016
Messages
2,399
Reaction score
1,326
Age
52
Location
korea
I had a woman ask me out a year ago to a classical concert. Hardly knew her from a bar of soap. She was not what you'd call a classical beauty... thin lips, and a funny shaped nose though with a nice figure. As I did not find her that attractive, I I did not actively pursue her, though we would still meet from time to time infrequently. But what I found during the course of the year is that she began to 'grow on me'. Now that she is leaving town and flying back to her own country, I think I'll miss her. Looking back at it, I think i should have done things differently, and she may have made for a nice girlfriend. She had a nice laugh.

One thing I noticed about myself is that I was quick to see flaws in her... especially in her values. Things like - oh, she's very middle class and status driven, she keeps looking at her smart phone, she didn't respond quick enough to a message, she wanted to go for a bike-ride instead of a movie, she wore frumpy pants when we met... all dis-qualifiers that irked me.

I think this is a good example to how I've moved on a bit from my approach to women.
 
Top