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have u ever stumbled upon a virgin ?

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just curious , have any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?

reason is ...

one day after work was over I went to eat dinner and met this girl, while we were waiting in line , I got her number , first phone call she tells me she's a virgin, on the 2nd date I got a BJ from her , 3rd date rolled around we made out and she blew me while she was doing I went downstair with my hand to test the waters and omg.... she was tight.....

she pulled my hand out , and said no , I said why ? her answer? it was against her morals , and her family would kill her if she had sex before marriage ....

so its been a few days .... all I get is head from this chick ...so I am going to dump her ...

how do you fellow dj's deal with virgins ?
 

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you make the women feel comfortable and relax her mind, that way you can bend her mind into a whole new world of excitement.
 
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I would move on because I would feel too guilty using the chick. Only if she's marriage material would I stick around and wait.
 
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ucmedv8 said:
I would move on because I would feel too guilty using the chick. Only if she's marriage material would I stick around and wait.
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She isn't marriage material if she gives some random stranger she meets in a line somewhere *******s and lets him finger her.
 
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I came upon a virgin once, but at at that point she wasn't a virgin anymore...

In any case, when meeting a girl who's a virgin it depends on why exactly she's clinging to her virginity so determinedly. Maybe it's religious. Maybe she's afraid of pregnancy/stds. Maybe she feels guilty because of what her family/friends/community might think. Etc etc. Whatever the case, if you find out what it is you can begin to calm her fears and make your move.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its interesting that a "virgin" gives head and lets you finger her after 2nd/3rd dates... so shes a virgin but gives guys *******s?

some girls pretend to be virgins just for the attention... but IF she really is a virgin, my advice is do not even think about taking her virginity if you dont want to commit to a long term, loving relationship with her. losing your virginity is a huge deal for her, especially with her religious/moral beliefs. if youre just looking for a good time, go for a different girl.

itll probably take weeks or months of comforting, building trust and intimacy before she gives herself to you. and if you ditch her shortly after, or if she feels you just went through the motions to eventually get in her pants, it will break her heart and make you look like an *******. only if you truly care and want to try to make something out of it, should you pursue.

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decadentdestruction said:
.... any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?
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Yes, a few. I sometimes trip, stumble and fall into their vagina accidentally.
 
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strong like bull said:
its interesting that a "virgin" gives head and lets you finger her after 2nd/3rd dates... so shes a virgin but gives guys *******s?


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I'm only 16 but it happens a lot its like they've figured out guys like virgins, in me and many mates experiences the real virgins don't give head on the 2nd date but you never know
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well lemme ask this, how do you all generally feel about sexually active/promiscuous girls? abstinence education? teen pregnancy? etc. Feminists and they're approach to it,how they sort of encourage it?
 
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I dont want anything LTR right now, I blew her off, she became clingy and started talking about "our" future ...

turns out she was a really a virgin , her sister added me on myspace, and msg me , I asked if her sis was really a virgin and she said yeah ... to avoid more drama I told her I wasn't interested in a LTR , and I ended up ending it in good terms ...

she cried ... I had no interested other than to f***, I have better things to worry about .

besides there are more women outthere , I guess waiting in line at quiznos will never be the same again lol.... hahahahaha

she was a solid 8 in my book , nice body . 21 year old..

but thanks for your opinions on the subject ....
 
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decadentdestruction said:
just curious , have any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?

reason is ...

one day after work was over I went to eat dinner and met this girl, while we were waiting in line , I got her number , first phone call she tells me she's a virgin, on the 2nd date I got a BJ from her , 3rd date rolled around we made out and she blew me while she was doing I went downstair with my hand to test the waters and omg.... she was tight.....

she pulled my hand out , and said no , I said why ? her answer? it was against her morals , and her family would kill her if she had sex before marriage ....

so its been a few days .... all I get is head from this chick ...so I am going to dump her ...

how do you fellow dj's deal with virgins ?
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What do you prefer, virgin who gives you head, or not having a virgin that gives you head?

Sounds like an easy and desirable situation to be in.

Why are you posting? I say keep her around, and be spinning several other plates, and stop thinking too much about fvcking the "virgin".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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Gangster Of Love said:
What do you prefer, virgin who gives you head, or not having a virgin that gives you head?

Sounds like an easy and desirable situation to be in.

Why are you posting? I say keep her around, and be spinning several other plates, and stop thinking too much about fvcking the "virgin".
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after reading this , I decided to keep her around ...

lets see what happens from here on , we hung out as friends the other day after I posted my last reply , and the car ride home was nice:yes: , I decided to save the f-ing for some other plates, but this chick has a mean mouth .
 
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DonGorgon said:
I have had 5... they were all good except the last one who was 20 years old.. old virgins suck
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No ****?? I'm assuming all were back in the day, the chick mentioned in this thread is the only virign over 16 I have even heard about in years.
 
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