"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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have u ever stumbled upon a virgin ?

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just curious , have any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?

reason is ...

one day after work was over I went to eat dinner and met this girl, while we were waiting in line , I got her number , first phone call she tells me she's a virgin, on the 2nd date I got a BJ from her , 3rd date rolled around we made out and she blew me while she was doing I went downstair with my hand to test the waters and omg.... she was tight.....

she pulled my hand out , and said no , I said why ? her answer? it was against her morals , and her family would kill her if she had sex before marriage ....

so its been a few days .... all I get is head from this chick ...so I am going to dump her ...

how do you fellow dj's deal with virgins ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you make the women feel comfortable and relax her mind, that way you can bend her mind into a whole new world of excitement.
 
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I would move on because I would feel too guilty using the chick. Only if she's marriage material would I stick around and wait.
 
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I would move on because I would feel too guilty using the chick. Only if she's marriage material would I stick around and wait.
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She isn't marriage material if she gives some random stranger she meets in a line somewhere *******s and lets him finger her.
 
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I came upon a virgin once, but at at that point she wasn't a virgin anymore...

In any case, when meeting a girl who's a virgin it depends on why exactly she's clinging to her virginity so determinedly. Maybe it's religious. Maybe she's afraid of pregnancy/stds. Maybe she feels guilty because of what her family/friends/community might think. Etc etc. Whatever the case, if you find out what it is you can begin to calm her fears and make your move.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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its interesting that a "virgin" gives head and lets you finger her after 2nd/3rd dates... so shes a virgin but gives guys *******s?

some girls pretend to be virgins just for the attention... but IF she really is a virgin, my advice is do not even think about taking her virginity if you dont want to commit to a long term, loving relationship with her. losing your virginity is a huge deal for her, especially with her religious/moral beliefs. if youre just looking for a good time, go for a different girl.

itll probably take weeks or months of comforting, building trust and intimacy before she gives herself to you. and if you ditch her shortly after, or if she feels you just went through the motions to eventually get in her pants, it will break her heart and make you look like an *******. only if you truly care and want to try to make something out of it, should you pursue.

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decadentdestruction said:
.... any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?
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Yes, a few. I sometimes trip, stumble and fall into their vagina accidentally.
 
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strong like bull said:
its interesting that a "virgin" gives head and lets you finger her after 2nd/3rd dates... so shes a virgin but gives guys *******s?


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I'm only 16 but it happens a lot its like they've figured out guys like virgins, in me and many mates experiences the real virgins don't give head on the 2nd date but you never know
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well lemme ask this, how do you all generally feel about sexually active/promiscuous girls? abstinence education? teen pregnancy? etc. Feminists and they're approach to it,how they sort of encourage it?
 
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I dont want anything LTR right now, I blew her off, she became clingy and started talking about "our" future ...

turns out she was a really a virgin , her sister added me on myspace, and msg me , I asked if her sis was really a virgin and she said yeah ... to avoid more drama I told her I wasn't interested in a LTR , and I ended up ending it in good terms ...

she cried ... I had no interested other than to f***, I have better things to worry about .

besides there are more women outthere , I guess waiting in line at quiznos will never be the same again lol.... hahahahaha

she was a solid 8 in my book , nice body . 21 year old..

but thanks for your opinions on the subject ....
 
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decadentdestruction said:
just curious , have any of u guys ever approach and come upon a virgin ?

reason is ...

one day after work was over I went to eat dinner and met this girl, while we were waiting in line , I got her number , first phone call she tells me she's a virgin, on the 2nd date I got a BJ from her , 3rd date rolled around we made out and she blew me while she was doing I went downstair with my hand to test the waters and omg.... she was tight.....

she pulled my hand out , and said no , I said why ? her answer? it was against her morals , and her family would kill her if she had sex before marriage ....

so its been a few days .... all I get is head from this chick ...so I am going to dump her ...

how do you fellow dj's deal with virgins ?
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What do you prefer, virgin who gives you head, or not having a virgin that gives you head?

Sounds like an easy and desirable situation to be in.

Why are you posting? I say keep her around, and be spinning several other plates, and stop thinking too much about fvcking the "virgin".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love said:
What do you prefer, virgin who gives you head, or not having a virgin that gives you head?

Sounds like an easy and desirable situation to be in.

Why are you posting? I say keep her around, and be spinning several other plates, and stop thinking too much about fvcking the "virgin".
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after reading this , I decided to keep her around ...

lets see what happens from here on , we hung out as friends the other day after I posted my last reply , and the car ride home was nice:yes: , I decided to save the f-ing for some other plates, but this chick has a mean mouth .
 
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DonGorgon said:
I have had 5... they were all good except the last one who was 20 years old.. old virgins suck
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No ****?? I'm assuming all were back in the day, the chick mentioned in this thread is the only virign over 16 I have even heard about in years.
 
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