"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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...in the literal sense of 'sleeping'.

Yeah we've all seen the movies where people fall asleep in each others' arms and they wake up with the girl's head on the man's chest. Not gonna happen. the trouble is if I move away to a more comfortable position for sleep the girl gets offended (You don't want to cuddle??) any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Leporello said:
...in the literal sense of 'sleeping'.

Yeah we've all seen the movies where people fall asleep in each others' arms and they wake up with the girl's head on the man's chest. Not gonna happen. the trouble is if I move away to a more comfortable position for sleep the girl gets offended (You don't want to cuddle??) any advice?
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I have always had the same problem. It's very rare that I fall asleep holding a woman in my arms. The last time it happened, I was pretty drunk and didn't remember falling asleep. Eventually, I woke up and moved into a better sleeping position. I feel your pain!

This is usually what I do though. I don't mind cuddling if we're laying in bed, on the couch, watching a movie, tv, whatever. This is exactly what I tell them. I love to cuddle. I just hate cuddling when I sleep and this is what I tell them. If they like to cuddle when sleeping, then this is my compromise. If this is not good enough for them, then PEACE!
 
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Yeah I get conscious of the fact that the girl is on me. Just politely tell them you need your space to sleep. No big deal.
 
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It´s an indicator of love. If you wake up with your girl in your arms, chances are high that you really love her. Attraction is not sufficient for this. I rarely wake up with a girl still in my arms. When it happens, I´m in love with her and it´s beautiful.
 
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IndianaJoneS said:
It´s an indicator of love. If you wake up with your girl in your arms, chances are high that you really love her. Attraction is not sufficient for this. I rarely wake up with a girl still in my arms. When it happens, I´m in love with her and it´s beautiful.
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Is this guy for real?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Waking Up said:
Yeah I get conscious of the fact that the girl is on me. Just politely tell them you need your space to sleep. No big deal.
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This works sometimes, but sometimes the girl insists on staying the night and sleeping in your bed with you. This happened to me recently me and no matter what I said I could not convince her to leave. So while she was able to sleep well I was awake the whole night. No way out of it sometimes, all I could think of was to try and sneak out of bed and sleep somewhere else, quite sad really.
 
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