"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have trouble sleeping with girls

Leporello

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...in the literal sense of 'sleeping'.

Yeah we've all seen the movies where people fall asleep in each others' arms and they wake up with the girl's head on the man's chest. Not gonna happen. the trouble is if I move away to a more comfortable position for sleep the girl gets offended (You don't want to cuddle??) any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kdnash82

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Leporello said:
...in the literal sense of 'sleeping'.

Yeah we've all seen the movies where people fall asleep in each others' arms and they wake up with the girl's head on the man's chest. Not gonna happen. the trouble is if I move away to a more comfortable position for sleep the girl gets offended (You don't want to cuddle??) any advice?
I have always had the same problem. It's very rare that I fall asleep holding a woman in my arms. The last time it happened, I was pretty drunk and didn't remember falling asleep. Eventually, I woke up and moved into a better sleeping position. I feel your pain!

This is usually what I do though. I don't mind cuddling if we're laying in bed, on the couch, watching a movie, tv, whatever. This is exactly what I tell them. I love to cuddle. I just hate cuddling when I sleep and this is what I tell them. If they like to cuddle when sleeping, then this is my compromise. If this is not good enough for them, then PEACE!
 

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Yeah I get conscious of the fact that the girl is on me. Just politely tell them you need your space to sleep. No big deal.
 

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It´s an indicator of love. If you wake up with your girl in your arms, chances are high that you really love her. Attraction is not sufficient for this. I rarely wake up with a girl still in my arms. When it happens, I´m in love with her and it´s beautiful.
 

Leporello

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IndianaJoneS said:
It´s an indicator of love. If you wake up with your girl in your arms, chances are high that you really love her. Attraction is not sufficient for this. I rarely wake up with a girl still in my arms. When it happens, I´m in love with her and it´s beautiful.
Is this guy for real?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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seagull

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Waking Up said:
Yeah I get conscious of the fact that the girl is on me. Just politely tell them you need your space to sleep. No big deal.
This works sometimes, but sometimes the girl insists on staying the night and sleeping in your bed with you. This happened to me recently me and no matter what I said I could not convince her to leave. So while she was able to sleep well I was awake the whole night. No way out of it sometimes, all I could think of was to try and sneak out of bed and sleep somewhere else, quite sad really.
 
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