Have to laugh how this girl claims to like me now that some guy played her

[Kal0051]

This is some girl I met a few months ago. I eventually grew to like her but she got distant and contact between us died off (other than the occasional IM). Anyway, get to talking with her today, apparently she got played but she now claims to still like me (say what?).

I'm pretty much done with this chick, but because I'm wondering if what she said was true I told her to call me (not expecting her to at all but whatever). I still do like her although her crap has pissed me off a bit in the last month.

Just don't understand this chick at all (since I judge people by their actions and not their words).

 

[returningchamp]

if she doesnt call - you can bet her interest is low.

id not want to get a girl who picked adifferent guy, got hurt and is now tryng to come back...

**** that!

 

[Kal0051]

if she doesnt call - you can bet her interest is low.

id not want to get a girl who picked adifferent guy, got hurt and is now tryng to come back...

**** that!

lol, that's pretty much my thoughts exactly, I just told her to call me for kicks, and who knows, I might get a lay out of it

 

[trv26]

If she's up for it now, why not play her a little bit urself?

 

[Kal0051]

If she's up for it now, why not play her a little bit urself?

well, I don't want to be a jackass. Idk, she seems a bit messed up, maybe if she got her **** together and I'm not in a relationship then we'll see. That's basically what I told her, but implied that if she takes too long I'll be gone.

 

[Mr. Obvious]

well, I don't want to be a jackass. Idk, she seems a bit messed up, maybe if she got her **** together and I'm not in a relationship then we'll see. That's basically what I told her, but implied that if she takes too long I'll be gone.

you have the AFC mindset

start thinking like a player, and women will fall into your lap

oh, you'll actually be HAPPY too, I don't know if that is important to you or not

 

[Kal0051]

you have the AFC mindset

start thinking like a player, and women will fall into your lap

oh, you'll actually be HAPPY too, I don't know if that is important to you or not

who said I'm not happy? Actually I'm quite happy, happier than I've been for a long time.

When you say think like a player I'm assuming you mean to spin plates rather than use girls and leave them broken, right? I am spinning plates (have a date tomorrow night with this girl I met last week), I think that's why she left the first time, she wanted a relationship and I just wanted to casually date.

I don't like using girls mainly because I know what it's like to be used and truthfully I'm just a good guy (but not nice guy, there's a difference). So why would I do to this girl what every other guy has done to her, just to satisfy my own ego?

The reason I'd rather her get her **** together is I don't want a chick in my life that's gonna cause me any headaches, and right now that what she'll cause me. But I didn't want her to think that I'm gonna be some loser that's gonna want forever for some girl (I've done that back in my afc days and I regret it, missed so many opportunities).