Have they ever confessed to you that they like it when they make fun of other men?

[jhonny9546]

Hello friends.

A recurring thing I've seen is that women like it when a man can dominate another man, by making fun of him!
It doesn't matter how, they might bully him, tease him, provoke him, or make demands, and then they joke about how he reacted to the insult and have a laugh.

I've come to the conclusion that women like it because it's a demonstration of strength.

What's your experince on this?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

My experience is that mostly insecure men behave in this way and they attract these type of women.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Hello friends.

A recurring thing I've seen is that women like it when a man can dominate another man, by making fun of him!
It doesn't matter how, they might bully him, tease him, provoke him, or make demands, and then they joke about how he reacted to the insult and have a laugh.

I've come to the conclusion that women like it because it's a demonstration of strength.

What's your experince on this?

Yes. Some women like men who damage other men. Though I’m sure such bullies pick their targets wisely.

 

[zekko]

I've come to the conclusion that women like it because it's a demonstration of strength.

I've seen this before, so I'm going to agree with you that this is a thing. In the community I think they call it AMOGing.

 

[jhonny9546]

My experience is that mostly insecure men behave in this way and they attract these type of women.

If that is your experience, means you had some real life things going on on this.
So, what exactly are your IRL examples about it?
Also, what does it means these type of women?
I've actually seen how this works for MANY of them, I mean it's not just a little amount.

Curious. about your experience

 

[jhonny9546]

Yes. Some women like men who damage other men

That "some", IRL, is actually "many".
Do you actually get any hint from women who like this, like some red flag, other than the fact they kinda like those "bully" men?


One example I can give is that a friend of my sister loved it when her current boyfriend (they weren't together yet) saw another guy approaching my sister's friend at a party, and went over to tell him, "Hey buddy, don't be such a man!" in a joking way, but also to assert dominance.
The friend really loved that they got together.

I've seen this before, so I'm going to agree with you that this is a thing. In the community I think they call it AMOGing.

yes zekko centered the point!
Could you share your experience on it?

 

[Manure Spherian]

That "some", IRL, is actually "many".
Do you actually get any hint from women who like this, like some red flag, other than the fact they kinda like those "bully" men?

They are simply with such men. There’s the “flag”. And hardly anyone here, maybe no man here, is usually in the vicinity of women who screw violent, criminal, or socially dominant men. I’ve known such a few women though, a few who’ve simply said, “I want a guy with an edge.” These are usually extremely complicated women with utterly messy lives.

 

[plumber]

this topic falls into the gray area between what is said and what is done and what actually happens. for sure women are attracted to a winner. to create the view of being a winner a conflict must exist. picking a safe target is wise (and mean...).

the issue is on women, they absolutely respond to a winner. even while telling how awful that action is, they are drawn to the man. think complaining about what the man is doing while continue to move closer to him.

another category where biology takes charge.

the wise men try to mask the aggressive actions as humor or neg. while the real feeling and impact stay in force.

this is not a good vs bad thing. its just details of how it works. it is not possible to change this, best case is to understand and adapt.


9 times out of 10, women will pick the criminal if he is winning vs the hero.

 

[BaronOfHair]

What's your experince on this?

If "a bully"(We misuse that word)is all that's around in a sea of nitwits, a gal will settle for such a fella, sure. Luckily, life isn't so polarized

 

[Hal9000]

Women like it because its basically acting how most women act toward each order from about age six. When you're being mean, petty, judgey, insulting, etc you are speaking the woman's language. Why do you think women love gay men? It's because they are just as catty as women.

 

[jhonny9546]

They are simply with such men. There’s the “flag”.

I understand your point. I thought so too. You don't know until you meet them.
One of these bully kids was also a very shy and shy guy.

who screw violent, criminal, or socially dominant men.

Sorry, WDYM here? I actually have trouble translating your meaning.
Also, women can say and do different things

 

[jhonny9546]

think complaining about what the man is doing while continue to move closer to him.

This is something I've experience in everyday life.

He come late at home at 21.
She tell him don't come later tomorrow.
He'll come late at home again.
She is on rage.
He apologize a bit, they've sex.

The day after:
He come late at home at 21.
She tell him don't come later tomorrow.
He'll come late at home again.
She is on rage.
He apologize a bit, they've sex.

Rinse and repeat, you can use this example with many other

9 times out of 10, women will pick the criminal if he is winning vs the hero

...all women?

If "a bully"(We misuse that word)is all that's around in a sea of nitwits, a gal will settle for such a fella, sure. Luckily, life isn't so polarized

Does this mean that the woman will see advantages in the bully over the niwits?

 

[jhonny9546]

Women like it because it's basically acting like most women act toward each order from about age six. When you're being mean, petty, judgmental, insulting, etc., you're speaking the woman's language. Why do you think women love gay men? It's because they are just as catty as women.

Okay, you nailed my experience. It's totally true.

When I see four women and one man talking about gossip, and I see that man have a unique gossip making ability, making fun of other men in a way others can't, as you say, you see it clearly with gay men, that's exactly when you wonder how it's possible that women are attracted to men like that?

In fact, as a man, I almost always refrain from participating in judgments and prefer to talk about ideas, not people.
(And this is alsowhat is adviced to become a mature man)
Does women seem this gossiping quality about others as something that is attractive? (We say that is not here)

Yet I see how women are attracted to and seek validation from judgmental men, who judge other men/women.
I can't understand how they can be attracted to them when they're primarily behaving the way they would with their friends.